"Instructions that will hurt" - A Reflection by Don Wesley

Short Circuiting Type Instructions - (Don Wesley 1933 – September 30, 2013)

My truest story - I remember,
at this moment started in 2008.
It is now 2013,
and I’m back at the start again.
I can laugh at myself, cause it's only a symptom!

Of having someone being mean to me.

I learned this horrifying lesson,
the day I came into Ottawa
looking for a safe-haven,
that I needed in a hurry! 

Everyone was so "kind" to say not here,
but go over there. So you go there
and over there, following the trail;
And find yourself, back here, where you started.

You know something is wrong;
If you dare travel the short-circuit again.

Why?
Those "kind" people get pissed-off,
by you,
And point to go-off Door.

Maybe now, you can understand why,
I slept all the first winter in my Car.
It was less hurtful, than the door option.

Now I’m even more distressed
and don’t cry any longer
I have made new better decisions.
Beware!

I, [the holy eye] remember those who did this to me.
Before I leave.... here, in the now, is the “Present”

Remember the sin of giving useless instructions;

Cause, "you" are hurting someone.
Give them what they need;
Like a helping hand to hold on too,
and pull them into warm shelter.

And "Shame on you" for hurting who you did.

 

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Getting my side of the Story Known - The Family secret at last (Don Wesley)

1.     TITLE:     A victim Husband - One man with one wife with Multiple Identities 

2.     Monogamy - One man with one wife

3.     Polygamy - One man with more than one wife

4.     A victim Husband - One man with one wife with Multiple Identities 

5.     Multiple Identities -  [a.k.a. Also Know As]  -  Dissociative Identity Disorders.

6.     Attachment Disorders – Injuries to a child – from conception to about the age of six

7.     (It should be noted that the decision to adopt an ethical principle as one's own is a purely personal one, and cannot be forced on someone. However, one cannot adopt a principle one does not know exists. Also, it is not very likely that someone will adopt a principle that is not congruent with his or her mental structure - and this mental structure is so powerfully influenced by early childhood experiences).

8.     Overwhelming power -   ABUSE OF POWER is the illegitimate use of power. 

9.     Bullies -    Someone who uses power illegitimately

10.   Therefore - A wife, who captures her husband’s Castle, is a wife who gets her way by bullying, in a different identity, wearing a mask and living in an unknown address. No summons possible.

11.  End.

The Prevost "T-Bag Ritual" ended the New Year's Day Meal.

September 24, 2013  5:24 PM

I don't blame Denise for our family failing; she tried everything she could find.
The very last two, sitting at the New Year's Table, were Denise and her Mother. They threw the "T-Bag missile" at each other, for what seemed like hours. I was the only one watching their fierce determination - never ever give up. I called it foolish, but it wasn't; it had a purpose, and was a spiritual ritual. Denise loved her Mother.
In my mind, we are still one.
My awareness of Denise is full Love and will never end either.
God Bless us both. 
God Bless everyone.
I can hear the Bells tolling.
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Divorce - Little Children - The Rich

Mark 10 (New International Version)

 

Divorce . . .

10 Jesus then left that place and went into the region of Judea and across the Jordan. Again crowds of people came to him, and as was his custom, he taught them.

² Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?”
³ “What did Moses command you?” he replied.
⁴ They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.”
⁵ “It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied.
⁶ “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.
⁷ For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,
⁸ and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
⁹ Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
¹⁰ When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this.
¹¹ He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her.
¹² And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”

The Little Children . . .

¹³ People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. ¹⁴ When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
¹⁵ Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
¹⁶ And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.

The Rich and the Kingdom of God . . .

¹⁷ As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. “Good teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
¹⁸ “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone.
¹⁹ You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.
²⁰ “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.”
²¹ Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
²² At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.
²³ Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!”
²⁴ The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God!
²⁵ It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”
²⁶ The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, “Who then can be saved?”
²⁷ Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”
²⁸ Then Peter spoke up, “We have left everything to follow you!”
²⁹ “Truly I tell you,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel
³⁰ will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age: homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields—along with persecutions—and in the age to come eternal life.
³¹ But many who are first will be last, and the last first.”

 

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Knowing the "we" and Self discovery - The Holy " I "

Used by Don, to better understand Family Dysfunction,

self discovery and growth.

The Holy " I "  and  the Integrated " All "

A very short aspect, of My Belief System Setmember 19, 2013 [Revised]



I truly thank you for your Precious Reply, it is extremely Valuable for me, in My Passionate Fight against Injustice.

This has been my life long mission. Those close, [not many] who truly see me, have at times, labeled me with the Words "the kindest man they have ever known." My wife at the time in 2008, said this to our Parish Priest over a dinner table. This is the mystery in my personal story, for the Kindest Man revealed to me is Christ, and He is in All of Us. Why do we appear not to see Him everywhere. Could it be we feel ashamed to declare so. I can say with certainty, that comments, from anywhere in Humanity do have a Huge mixture of Thoughts to Ponder, and the Reality is, that "Time" does not allow us to Commit to a Scholarly Review of all the Options.
To get aboard a Train to a Better World does require that we find our way to the Right station with the Right Train.
We don’t want to find ourselves, on a Train to nowhere.
Like many, I try hard to avoid the Temptation to be Perfect, in Everything. I look therefore at the "Whole" of the Mix to find the Stories behind the Story.
Then, I am often too quick to express my findings and that which is given as Free, is often taken as having No Value.
I slowly learned, the Lesson of the Golden Goose. From there-on, I, earned a Handsome living for delivering Intellectual Know-How, which Flowed quickly, from what I do Best, which is to Create Beauty and Wealth, out of Chaos and Dysfunction.
I did my Work in businesses, as a Businessman, and I did find “Evil” present Everywhere.
Does anyone Disagree!
And then one Day on Christmas Eve of 2008, I found Evil in my Home, ... .. . and it shocked and disturbed my State of Contentment!
I felt the "Abuse of Cruelty."
Then, making life even more Revealed to me, I found Evil flourishing in The Courts of Canadian Justice, on the 31st day July, in the year of Our Lord 2009. I was crushed, carrying the Burden.
This awaken in me, the Reality that I was still an Officer of the Crown, which is to say that an Officer of the Court, may one day have to surrender to someone like me.
One Problem, which I always have, is to reveal my thinking with passion and kindness, without pause for refection; I trust Myself and my Integrity.
People who are in my presence, can see the Whole of me, with my full set of Emotions, which includes an abundance of Kindness. I am truly visible, for those who, come without Malice in their Hearts.
If there is a Lesson to recall from the Stories of Wisdom from the past, I offer this you:
The "Whole" is Greater the Sum of the Parts.
This Choice of Focus, of looking at the Whole, which I most always do, is Ordained from Above. I prayed to God, for His eternal help.
The Bedrock of my Foundation rests upon those Skills, which I have learned Most Easily, as He made them available to me in a very Creative Manner.
This "House of Skills and Experience", is my “Belief-System,” and is always accountable for what it delivers.
Love to All,
Don Wesley [From the Silent Generation]
September 19, 2013. Sitting with Hope, in a small town in , Ontario, Canada.

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My Grandchild and Nicky our Dog - Inseparable souls

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Nicky

Who Poisoned Him ?

Where is Zayne ?

Don Knows the Answers !

 

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Ego-centric vs . Socio-centric - A question resolved by Ayn Rand.

Ego-centric vs. Socio-centric

 

They existed only to serve the state. They were conceived in controlled Palaces of Mating. They died in the Home of the Useless. From cradle to grave, the crowd was one—the great WE.
In all that was left of humanity there was only one man who dared to think, seek, and love.
He, Equality 7-2521, came close to losing his life because his knowledge was regarded as a treacherous blasphemy . . . he had rediscovered the lost and holy word - "I"

“I worship individuals for their highest possibilities as individuals, and I loathe humanity, for its failure to live up to these possibilities.”
—Ayn Rand

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Honest, but at times illogical; more common than we think.

(Revised September 15, 2013)
Denise, my partner in marriage [now divorced] is very smart and determined.
She is also honest, but at times illogical;
much more common than we think.

She did her fact finding, and took time to consider and discuss with her friends and the family what she should do, after 47 years of Marriage. She decided to leave me and not tell me, until after she had left.

My problem was that she didn't discuss her options with me, the Patriarch of the family. Her Mother died and left her a buddle of money and a home to live in.

One day in 2007/8, I gave her a New Credit Card with a limit of $90,000.00, with only the interest to pay. There was sufficient wealth to secure the loan for ever. The wealth was all mine.

Shortly after Christmas Eve of 2008, the evening she left me, I learned she was divorcing me.

A few months later on July 31, 2009, I found myself evicted from my own family home and studio, which I bought, and paid for in 1969. It was fully paid for and there were no taxes or other debts outstanding.

To this very day, she claims she is honest and I agree with her. I also say she is often illogical.

I have collected the facts since she left and have analyzed everything.

I have put together, the story of the crime. She was assisted by my two sons and her employer. I deliverrd the facts of this incident to the RCMP in Westmount on the Island of Montreal. I also reported my Lawyer to the Bar of Quebec.

My children live in Ontario and my wife on the Ocean side of Quebec, somewhere unknown.

I know that I'm an elder who has been cruelly abused. I'm 80 years old.

How will this end?   donwesley1933@live.com

Obligations to God, “Family” and Vocation come before the fraternity”

 

 

What Is Freemasonry?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XhirrSEKjI

 

It does a superb job of explaining exactly why freemasons are good guys.  Masonry also comes last in a Masons life. Obligations to God, “Family” and Vocation come before the fraternity - Commenter can be seen on YouTube. 

 

How it helped me

 

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News and Nostalgia - About Making What is Good, even Better

He won by a big margin, 36 years ago

About Making What is Good, even Better
 

Stop Walking on Eggshells.- November 4, 2011

 

 

 

Stop Walking on Eggshells: Secrets of Limit Setting - Randi Kreger

Family Perspectives on Borderline Personality Disorder: The Basics and Beyond

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85_eYftuv0k

Times were really super. Every one was very happy it seems. Circa 66.

Here on the Richelieu Canal, with Mama and Papa
and Nicole and Gilles

and me as Captain. Denise with pregnant with Michael. 
We left Montreal, and  through the Seaway, up to Sorel.
And then down the Richelieu Canal to Lake Champlain.
It took a week I seem to recall.

We all had our own bunks and slept peacefully.

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Don caught the fish and Denise took the picture [Circa 1965]

 

 

 

On the Rideau Canal near Ottawa.

On the Jaccam.

I put him back in the water. 

Denise and I were alone.

Steven, and Christopher were at Home.

 

 

Integrated Lighting Limited Circa 1959

 

 

Don's  first Company

 

He found Denise a bit later

Serge and Maurice [above] were the two very skilled employees.

 

 



IBM Executive Direction Education Program - 1976

IBM Executive Direction Education Program  - 1976
 

Front row, third from the right /\

Don is present

Alexandria Masonic Lodge No. 439. A.F. & AM G.R.C.

Lodge Summons

 

SEPTEMBER   9  2013    -    DJW



Seen Dancing Insane?

Multiple Personality Disorder - amazing stories - Part 1/5

When I visit this lesson, I cry, thinking about Denise and me.
She is a wonderful Person.
I love her.
donwesley1933@live.com.

Multiple Personality Disorder - amazing stories - Part 1/5http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTgdbT5hBDc

Being Honest but Not always Logical; much more common than we think.

Denise, my partner in marriage [now divorced] is very smart and determined.
She is also honest, but at times illogical;
much more common than we think.

She did her fact finding, and took time to consider and discuss with her friends and the family what she should do, after 47 years of Marriage. She decided to leave me and not tell me, until after she had left.

My problem was that she didn't discuss her options with me, the Patriarch of the family. Her Mother died and left her a buddle of money and a home to live in.

One day in 2007/8, I gave her a New Credit Card with a limit of $90,000.00, with only the interest to pay. There was sufficient wealth to secure the loan for ever. The wealth was all mine.

Shortly after Christmas Eve of 2008, the evening she left me, I learned she was divorcing me.

A few months later on July 31, 2009, I found myself evicted from my own family home and studio, which I bought, and paid for in 1969. It was fully paid for and there were no taxes or other debts outstanding.

To this very day, she claims she is honest and I agree with her. I also say she is often illogical.

I have collected the facts since she left and have analyzed everything.

I have put together, the story of the crime. She was assisted by my two sons and her employer. I deliverrd the facts of this incident to the RCMP in Westmount on the Island of Montreal. I also reported my Lawyer to the Bar of Quebec.

My children live in Ontario and my wife on the Ocean side of Quebec, somewhere unknown.

I know that I'm an elder who has been cruelly abused. I'm 80 years old.

How will this end?   donwesley1933@live.com

I have lost Denise, my wife. Mother of two children. By an act of the Court of Law. Divorce

Today, is September 07, 2013.

I am a homeless Christian, on a Journey to find Heaven. A Pilgrim, one might say; 

I told the Court, in my Defense documents, that there was no reason for a Divorce, made under the Laws  of Heaven.

I was short of pocket-money, when Denise surprised me, by leaving, the Family Home and advising me [by email 2:30am] on the Eve of Christmas of 2008.
All my accessible Cash was with Denise, because I believed in her honesty and trustworthiness.

My wealth was secure, I thought; protected by the Marriage Contract and the connected Deed of Sale for our home.
I know Denise, almost completely, but not good enough to know that she had been abused as a child, I wasn't there to watch over those years.

The injury she was subjected to, was done by her Parents somehow.
It is called an Attachment disorder, which gives birth to a Mental Disorder, so I have learned. The injury is recognized [today] by Medicine, as D.I.D.

It manifests it's patterns, in the living person as different identities. Each identity somewhat unknown to the other, with amnesia in between.

When the most stable personality is in charge, as it was when I met [1962] and fell in Love with her, I realized that she was an Angel sent from Heaven, and when married we would be of one-heart, ready to have and raise children.  This personality had Integrity. A Christian Marriage in a Catholic Church. 

That early personality was honest and faithful. The other personalities I don't know, except for the one known as "Dangerous Women." 

Today, now divorced from me [In Court of Quebec] she is calling herself, Viddoui; another personality; one speaks English, the other French it seems. 

She lied and committed Perjury, in most of the documents in Court to approve the Divorce.
I lost all my "wealth and the home" that was mine before we married. I have one Son from one, previous relationship, which was annulled by Quebec Court in a few days, back in 1962. I was given the work of raising him myself.

To find out more about the question "How could this happen," think about the notion of Corruption.

All good couples, thinking of marriage, please know all about each other, before raising Children.

Don't listen to conversations on TED.

More of this story with powerful words of Truth are being considered


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