Showing posts with label ABUSE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ABUSE. Show all posts

Friday, June 2

Wilful fraud and deliberate crime !

Hi and welcome to this Inn which I created using Google Tools. My Name is Don Wesley ...
To see more of the "Thinker" Stories.. follow this link below.
www.google.com/+donwesley




Dear Serge,
I was thinking about marriage commitments and the importance of family in society during our time here on earth and I perused my copy of Wilder Penfield’s book ‘Man and his Family.’
Penfield wrote this book at the request of Governor General Georges P. Vanier.
One sentence stood out this morning and I quote: “I have been impressed by the fact that the stern integrity of our fathers has been gradually weakened, and in many cases has entirely disappeared. Occupations and pleasures which in their days, would have been regarded as wrong are without hesitation indulged in. In business, profit is the first consideration, and little thought is given to the moral character of the transactions.
Indeed, wilful fraud and deliberate crime have been frequently discovered and exposed.”
These words were written May 28, 1925 by Josiah Wood. He was a member of the Canadian Senate.
Penfield’s book was published in 1967.
Find here: ----------- http://innjustice.blogspot.com/2011/01/many-links.html
At this moment I realize that I am one of those stern fathers who is alive and kicking and committed to
‘INN-JUSTICE.’Here I am now, saying we need to expose the crime being commited within the walls of our Courts.I am now wondering what you may have been able to do to save your marriage looking back from todays  viewpoint. I need a few words from you Serge.
Until soon,
Aware of and caring about you and all of humanity
Don

Friday, September 23

A Short Essay about Abuse

INTRODUCTION






Preface

Victims are forgotten, to give room in the news, for the Victimizers.

I'm writing this post to remind you all about the History of Coffins. It is the lonely Palace we live in, until God's magnetic field lifts us out and up into Heaven, just before they drop the earth over your coffin. Little time and little space.
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Get your life ready, you could be dead before the evening Moonlight turns you back into the Flesh-Light. 


I'll be 82 in less than 3 weeks.


April 4, 2015

We spend this life gathering wealth and possessions, and sometimes this can be meaningful, but sometimes there is the danger that this might become the grounds for conflict and dispute.
There are many disasters caused by the four elements—earthquakes, wildfires, strong winds, and turbulent seas—and they also bring disease and illness and then there are manmade disasters like those occurring in our court system.
In this Book I will talk about the wealth and possessions I gathered during my life, and a particular conflict and dispute; my wife’s court action for a divorce. At this point in time, I define my wealth and possessions, as those which were housed in my home (Castle) at 6 Hazel Drive in Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec, Canada; Postal Code H9B1C5. (See Google Earth for a satellite view of my home. – Go H9B1C5)









My wife, Denise Wesley, announced to me that she had left me and my home, on Xmas Eve December 24, 2008. (You can see a picture of her letter to me emailed Xmas eve at 2:30 AM) The picture is but one building block in the story to be built up.
I declare that my intent in writing this ‘Book’ is to show the readers of this collection of essays that my life time (78 years) collection of my wealth and possessions has been stolen from me by using our Court Systems. I will describe how dysfunctional our Court Systems are in producing such unconscionable court orders.

I will describe the many key building blocks of information, which the story will use to build a believable understanding of how such a theft of my wealth and possessions, occurred.
 Each building block (like a mason’s brick) will then become part of the complete construction of a rational building. The building blocks, by themselves, must be assembled together by a rational mind, to provide a true building; the product of an architect. Without the architect there is nothing but a collection of building block on the construction site. I will remind the reader that each building block alone is not the architects building.
A wise individual will organize and create a solid plan for assembling the building block into a new building. (A Book in this case.)
If you build your own idea of what I am building, then you will be making a mistake of logic in reasoning.
You will not get my truth; I am the architect of this Book and you will have to be patient while my house of truth is being constructed for you to see.
 I can promise you, that I will add valuable new insights about our Canadian Courts Systems; systems that are destroying the wealth of our nation, one individual at a time. There are approximately 300,000 Psychopaths in Canada who destroy the wealth I am talking about. The destruction leaves behind its victims. I, like thousands of other victims, need to have our story heard. This is the story I am about to build! The loss of wealth to our nation is in the billions of dollars each year! And the victims become zombies!
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PREFACE II

46 Years ago on this Day I married Denise – April 11, 1964.
Denise has lived, free of rent for all these years in the home I furnished and paid for before she moved in as my young wife. We raised our two children, Steven and Michael, and my adopted son Christopher.
On July 29, 2009, Denise had me evicted from my own property. On April 17 I will enter into my 78th year, still a homeless man. I was totally shocked by this cruel and abusive action initiated by my wife of 46 years of togetherness. Why did this happen? I do not harm anyone. I am a kind man, without malice. The home is paid for and there are no unpaid taxes or bills. So I ask how could this happen?
I had put my home in the name of my wife, in trust, all as defined in our marriage contract, which we both agreed to and signed before we were married. I retained the right to manage the trust account as I saw fit. This means that house/home is my property and that I am using a legal means to protect the home from malicious individuals from disturbing a family home. Because of this decision Denise and I are separate as to property as declared in a marriage contract signed before we married.
She has broken the trust which I placed in her name Denise Wesley, wife of Donald John Wesley.

My wife uses many names!
My lawyers have failed in their duty to me, to properly defend my interests and the courts have made me homeless. The lawyers are not even responding to my emails to them.
I am both physically and mentally fit. I am not a danger to anyone else or to myself. I can afford to live in my home.
So why am I homeless? The home has a market value of $350,000.00 and yet I receive no income from this asset which is mine, so I ask why this is so? Why am I not receiving a rental income?
Who is responsible for this financial abuse to me, an elder citizen of Canada?
I ask why’ as I am certain you will ask why?
I am not alone and the only citizen in this situation. There thousands of us in exactly in this same situation.
It could be said that I am in fact incarcerated by this situation. Who is the warden of this prison?

A word about “Abuse.”

“Abuse” occurs when someone has an overwhelming advantage in power over another person, making any the contest unfair. An example would be that one person controls more money than the other; or one has a gun and the other does not.
Declaring to another person that they are doing wrong is not “Abuse”.
Thinking that another person might tell you that you are wrong is not “Abuse”.

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Be very cautious when someone inserts the word abuse into a conversation which is claiming to describe you!

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Elder Abuse - Don Wesley

Monday, July 11

He knows I received a negative judgement from one Judge that was cruel.

21/01/2010 12:06 PM

Just 2 months ago I met with a special police constable (trained to deal with such cases) of the Ottawa police force who concluded that I was not a threat to myself nor to anyone else. Found me to be very astute.

He also told me of another Ottawa police officer who has been ordered by a court to pay his wife a monthly sum of $2000.00. He cannot afford to do this, but he will be arrested if he does not do so. The problem he stated that the problem comes from the two lawyers who want to sell his home.

I am not alone with this problem. The RCMP in the Montreal Court House told me that families are devastated daily by the court system.

One of my lawyers told me he could not attack his own court. He knows I received a negative judgement from one judge that was nothing less than cruel.


Also you have to know that the first two judgements gave me exclusive occupancy of 6 Hazel Drive. Denise ignored these judgments and with her lawyer was able to generate an eviction order (not a Judgement) that made me homeless. It was based on lies. It said she was the owner of 6 Hazel and that I was simply   a tenant.


I am not living in the past, but very much in the present. My story for the final trial Judge is what will determine the end result. Getting there will cost us much of our wealth. I will send you a March copy of the Financial Post supporting my story. It is crazy for a couple to divorce at our age. 

Thursday, June 30

A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms ~ Attacks Her Husband.



(The Victim ~ Lyndon Fawcett)

 A TRUE Story by Don Wesley

My 2 Sons

My Denise - BPD

Me - Another Older Victim; helping Lyndon Fawcett

A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms. 
Attacks Her Husband.




The Husband was attacked by his wife.


April 11, 2016. Past midnight   By Don Wesley

1)  While He was sleeping, she cut herself and then called the police  911, to say he cut her.

2)  This happened In Ottawa. April 10, 2016.

3) 
I met Him in Winchester Tim Hortons, just about Midnight. We  were strangers.


4) He had paid $90.00 for a Taxi to drive him to Hortons.


5) He was waiting for his Aunt Maria to pick him up.

6) He appeared very anxious waiting for his aunt.

7)  I  felt his unease, and asked why he was so anxious. His reply was part of the sentences above.

8)  Given my experience and empathy I suggested and he accepted my experienced help.  He expressed his appreciation several times. He seemed compassionate.


9)  He is 40 with 3 children and his wife according to him has a very serious drinking problem.

10)  I drove him to his aunt at 12413 Barkley Road, Williamsburg.


11) His wife,  by calling the police resulted that He was charged by the Ottawa Police

12)  He was taken to the Ottawa City Police Station, where a Detective had a Conversation with Him and then asked Questions. He denied that, He even touched his wife.
He was sleeping before she arrived


13) The husband has objective evidence , that she drinks and is very argumentative.

14) He has pictures of Her bite marks on His leg and ankle.


15) He has evidence over 8 years of being together.
3 children , the oldest is 11.


16)  His wife brought the children to her mother and returned to tell her husband to leave.

17) He, having no place go except to is aunts home. A $90.00 Taxi drive to Winchester.

18) He says he was fed up with her arguments and admittedly feeling annoyed. Always self controlled annoyance

19) My conclusion, based upon serious study since 2000, is that His wife was abused as a child [Trauma] and has all the symptoms of Borderline Disorder - with the usual  

self-injuries.

20)  Their children are also at risk with his wife; she could kill them or injure them in some less permanent way


21) These injured women, have an impulse control problem.

22) They are very dangerous, many studies reveal this true.

23) Many more studies, can reveal that Husbands are seeing injustice hit them; financially, morally and psychologically.

24) These psychic injuries are being seen by Family Doctors as PTSD. This is a long term injury caused by someone other than the victim.  It makes the victim too anxious.

-See ....

25)   http://innjustice.blogspot.ca/2015/04/complex-ptsd-post-traumatic-stress.html

26)   The police charge itself,
is one more traumatic attack !
Why are police attacking Him instead of defending Him?


27)  He works in the Construction Industry when the weather permits.
28)  His wife was arguing with His co-worker this April 10, same evening. The argument seemed too serious.

29)  He asked His co-worker to leave; so he did.


30)  This all fits those Who have been abused as a children.
This is the Borderline Disorder set of symptoms.  


30) They were all drinking.
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Here are some lessons about
BPD and Impulse Control.
  






























































Thursday, May 26

No one is coming to save me.

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February 11, 2011.
"No one is coming to save us;" they said, abord a life raft in the ocean.
My thoughts went back when I awaited on U.S.-Route 7
 badly injured, during the middle of the night on
January 5, 1952. I was a young military officer at 19 years of age
very strong, but my injuries were
life threatening.
It was a long wait for me and my brother Douglas Brown.
I had been hit by a drunk driver and was thrown through the air over our car
 for about fifty feet.
Cars drove by without stopping and I began to wonder whether
 any would stop to help. I was in very bad
condition and going into shock.
My thoughts now jump forward with exact same sentence,
 "no one is coming to save me."
My rights have not been  available to me
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Friday, April 15

An Itch We Scratch - Should we Itch and accept Gods 'Value Adding Chain' ?






Let the Itch become just a visiting thought



Preface and Introduction

Should we have already adjusted and accepted Gods 'Value Adding Chain' - Yes of Course we should have.

Our World Situation has Changed: Very rapidly and is even accelerating





A Paradigm Builder - Retired.
Might be available




"Always late is our behavior, while an Itch is automatically fixed and fast"

We adjust to scratch the Itches we experience...
Should we adjust and accept Gods 'Value Adding Chain'  - It is urgent now.


This New Play has a different Lighting Engineer And a New Director


God is more Uncovered here.


Here we will see a more Digital Look of our Confusing Life. The Stage Play has a New Producer and Stage Artists

The 'Value Adding Chain for Administrators' will remove all the weakest links and all the disgusting and boring old 'Order' The decisions they 'manufacture' will also be quality controlled as part of the New 'Value  Adding Chain'



What do they Manufacture now - just News and more news.
Their selfish News costs far too much and is repetitive.


Enjoy This New Digital-Play-Attempt and what It Uncovers... the unseen and under Gods Couch Comforter. We need His comfort now... to find a real meaning to Live.. Suicides is what the news reveals now.


Revealed here, is much more than we missed in the Old Stage Plays with Dimmer Candle Lighting.
This Play is more Energetic using the power of Electric Lighting.

Our Universe Is fully Electric - It must be used - Because It is Free

The promised Life is exciting, and will be real, without all the miserable news about unresolved conflicts. Especially those conflicts in Our Administrative Parliaments. The cost of Administration is the problem. The Senate Quality Control is to slow and too costly. We need both to be Production Operations and part of One value-adding-system managed by one Director. This is what Big Business' had to do to survive. They too were late but
they finally surrendered their management to temporary Paradigm Designers who were also contract builders. One who had no conflicts to resolve.



Unresolved-conflicts continue to destroy our willingness to work.
Work should only be happiness.



All we are doing is manufacturing discussions, which are boring and disgusting. And this gets Claps for Our Elected Administrator's who are not part of the Value adding Chain
(They are the 'weak' Link)
Get to know more about Gods 'Value Adding Chain' and how It produces miracles not just thoughts and predictions.



He Includes all our different dissuasion modes, into a new Drama Look. Organized more effectively into smaller operations and quality control everything into a new Value Adding Chain.
Even personal relationships will be local and smaller - Less Facebook-world wide relationships.

That is what the Digital World Idea Promised and failed to deliver.
Administration must be part of the New Chain.



The One Set of 10 Ideas to live a Happy, Healthy Life.


Is what you are doing now Habitual?
Is it the best Habit or Just a wasteful one?


I'm always adjusting as I believe we all are.

We adjust to scratch an Itch - Should we adjust and accept Gods better Thoughts? 


















A)  Every Week I'll look for and present a New Blog Digital Play

B)  Now "The Hidden Teachings of Jesus"



First see this short lesson - a pre-requisite.














Friday, January 22

To the Editor - Victims in the Family Courts

17/03/2010 10:14:09AM
Dear Editor,
Yesterday, my wife’s friend, said it could be more than a year
before the proceeds of the sale of my home flow from the final divorce hearings.


I am still homeless and still in need of re-homing. I was made homeless by a Court Order
being issued to evict me from my home and I never saw the allegations which the Court judge
used to make such an order.



My basic right to my home was denied me; a violation of my human rights and my lawyer
did nothing to stop this; instead he encouraged the process to continue, because he claimed
he knew better. In fact both my lawyer and Denise’s lawyer sat together across a table
from me and told me so, just before the eviction.



If you have ever been on a camping trip, you know you control when to pack up
and get back home again. But being made homeless without a tent and all the associated equipment is another story; and knowing you cannot go back home.
And the months go by; the season changes and you freeze to near death in your car.
This really happened to me; and I could not be in contact with my home within
100 meters, without being arrested and jailed.
A charitable citizen came to my aid; Herbert Foxwell paid for a month of motel for me.



Many more people saw the criminal neglect abuse that I was being captive to suffer.
What I describe above is violent abuse to an individual; a crime as detailed in the criminal code.
It is against the law, everyone will tell you; except when it has been framed and accepted by the family court it is not treated as a crime.
An RCMP officer at the Montréal court house told me so; he said he watched families being devastated daily by the kind of events that have happen to me, and there is absolutely nothing he can do about it.
Similarly a police officer in the city of Ottawa told me so, saying it always boils down to the sociopathic behaviour of the two lawyers involved.
They have neither conscience nor remorse for the victims and see only to their greed for the cash that will flow to them from the sale of your home.


There was in fact nothing that I had ever done or even could imagine doing that should
have given the Judge the power to evict a citizen from his home; nothing except a hidden affidavit with distorted truths.
The overwhelming power of the court resulted in 3 police cars with a Bailiff telling me
to leave my home immediately or be arrested. This happened to me July 29, 2009.
My home that I bought and paid for in 1969 which was also my studio and offices; a place where I created knowledge (intellectual property) to sell for a living.
The home, I planned to have grown around us and care for us until death did us part.
It was a family home.



However one day my wife Denise suffering from a mental ‘intra-psychic conflict’
made an irrational decision to leave the marriage, and start a divorce.
Intra-Psychic conflicts are usually a temporary disorder which can be relieved by using the help of highly specialized psychological professionals. Depending on the dominant
personality involved some ‘Intra-Psychic conflicts’ are very dangerous and deliver vindictive behaviour; enough to murder its intended victim. This not a matter for the Courts.
An Intra-Psychic conflict is not a conflict with the marriage partner.
In my intuited thinking, these happenings, are a clear result of our court system
allowing Denise’s motion to enter the court system.
This not the proper framing of the conflict! The court accepted this motion knowing it would it create unintended harm to both the parties. The parties would lose all their wealth; wealth that took a life time of work to accumulate for their retirement years would be transferred to persons within the court system.



News papers have published numerous editorial essays which have explained that this harm occurs.
At this moment in time there is insufficient public support for making changes to our society,
that will stop ‘dead in it tracts’ these kinds of abuse to families.
This has devastated me personally; and it is happening daily to family units throughout our nation.
The court system has a chain of processing operations make this happen; and they charge
you for what they call a value adding chain processing which allows our government to collect taxes on.


Think about this from another frame of view; they collect taxes to withdraw the wealth of divorcing couples; couples who had a psychological conflict, to be dealt with and nothing more.
This destructive process is cyclically going on every day in our own court system. If sounds crazy to hear this point of view, it is a truthful view of exactly what is going on.
It is useful for me to add that the Courts answer only to themselves.



Consider Key words like Court, logic, justice.They are common.
How about key words such as Court, Crazy logic, Harry Potter?

Married 46 years, living 41 in the same home and raising 3 sons I am about to enter my
78th year, on the planet in one of the most peaceful (without war) countries of the world,
but a country that allows this to happen on a daily basis to families who were free from violence but had a person to person communication problem only or an Intra-Psychic conflict of one partner.
The court is exhibiting symptoms of Schizophrenia, that is to say they don’t seem to see what damage they are doing to so many citizens by using ex-parte affidavits and sociopathic employees to issue unconscionable judgements.

Conflicts between a company employee and the company are resolved by the human resources department very quickly because unresolved conflicts destroy
the willingness to work. This human resource process is well described in books on human resource management; books I studied while in my 20’s.
But the divorce courts are ignorant of this knowledge; imagine ignorant of this knowledge.
Companies are not ignorant of this knowledge but our courts are when it comes to family affairs.
I do not blame all court employees but I am framing a view that shows the system architecture is badly flawed and it needs more than logic to repair; it needs the intuitively inspired problem solving ability.



The Science of logic, invented by Aristotle, could be used for checking truth of a statement and inferences drawn from it.
According to him, priori is the inherent store of knowledge and is beyond proof. Man inheritintly believes in it.
Posterior knowledge is based on personal experience and can be falsified due to number of errors. Logic is an instrument of thought by which truth can be differentiated from false but eventually source of untruth and limitations were found in logic also.
Logic could not discover new knowledge. It gyrates within original proposition from which it inferred certain conclusions.
Man needed something more than logic to discover new knowledge; otherwise man would be whirling round and round of his own making.
He has to intuit it from nature or his previous store of knowledge.
By this act of intuition man could not carry out extended reasoning but only jump away and beyond his previous store of knowledge.
Belief on intuited knowledge is characterized by suddenness, completeness and conviction without necessity of proof. Intuition is its own proof.
A quotation from a recognized source. Within the general population there are 4 ‘sociopaths’ per 100. According to English studies each ‘socio path’ is responsible for $50,000.00 of damage yearly.


I wrote this letter while sitting in the ‘free kitchen area’ in the Ottawa Sikh Temple, a place of remarkable social value to our nation.
A civil engineer who is doing additional studies in Bio-Mass microbiology to develop
knowledge for the new world emerging; a wise young Sikh man who lives in Toronto and has stayed at this temple which has become my office for the day. He has read and approved of this document.
“I must make myself a better communicator with greater detachment” he has humbly suggested to me. 17/03/2010 4:28 PM.


Dr Kohli, Author of Unique Master has read and approved this of this document as has, Harjinder Sandhu, Sikh Lawyer age 35 another reader approved of this document

donwesley1933@live.com

Wednesday, January 20

“ It was he who evicted me.” Don, March 30, 2011. New and revised May 10, 2014.

Today is October 4, 2015
And Francynes' reply is still a lie.

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“ It was he who evicted me.”  say Don,  March 30, 2011.
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From: Don Wesley
To: Vic Roth
Vic, I believe my reply to Francyne is tricky.
Will it change things and become effective I can’t be certain!  I refer to the following line: “
 It was he who evicted me.”
Don

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“ It was he who evicted me.”  say Don,  March 30, 2011.
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From: Don Wesley
Sent: Tuesday, March 29, 2011 3:40 PM
To: Denise Wesley
Subject: REPLY to your email
Francyne.

Thank you for letting me know the status of the case.  I will follow through with your idea for dealing with my
present lawyer. I did make a complaint to the Bar about his behaviour, shortly after being evicted from my home. I
was advised to do so. It was he who evicted me.
I am sorry that you feel my messages are harassment, it is not my intention. I am very lonely being separated from
Denise, and I was motivated to write. Except for a final chapter, a book is completed;  about the devastation that
divorce creates within families; I am not alone. When I write it is sometimes to my diary and other times to my
wife Denise. I hope you understand.
Knowing that you feel uncomfortable, I will cease sending any essays (messages) to you. I have always known that she
does not get messages which I have sent to her, using this address; you told me so months ago.
I am not sure about how to cease dealing with my present lawyers, perhaps you could elaborate a little more than you have. I will then send them an email with a copy to Me Adelia Ferreira as you have directed, to accelerate the process.
I hope you and Denise are well.
Love (Care and Aware)
Don

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“ It was he who evicted me.”  say Don,  March 30, 2011.
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From: Denise Wesley
Sent: Sunday, March 27, 2011 3:41 PM
To: Don Wesley
Subject: Divorce
Don,

We had kept this address alive to communicate with you during court appearances and to facilitate the divorce
procedures.  At this point however, I only receive harassment messages addressed to Denise and the
correspondance between you and a couple of people you know.

The money from the sale of the house is still not released because the divorce procedures have still not been
settled.  If you want this, and you don't want to deal with your present lawyers, send them a note telling them you
are no longer interested in dealing with them, send a copy to Me Adelia Ferreira (her address below) and she will
take care of the divorce procedures and releasing the funds from the sale of the house.

Following your response, I will then close this e.mail account.

Regards,

Francyne


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“ It was he who evicted me.”  say Don,  March 30, 2011.
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donwesley1933@live.com

Thursday, December 31

Jodi Arias - Twisting tale of love - similar to the story of Don And Denise Wesley


March 2, 2013  -  by Don Wesley
I add this story, because
I see Jodi, as someone who was abused as a child and I hate what the abused personality has done, to Travis

This is also true of my Soul-Mate Denise, and what she has done to me.
However I love both Denise and Jodi for their innocent personality. Both have two separate personalities.
One personality is guilty but not both.

 
For over 4 years, I have learned and no longer have a
"prejudiced mind." about this important matter.

 I want people to become aware, that...

"Abuse, created the personality, which is out of
control of their emotions and reasoning"


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The following stories have many building-blocks
which are very similar to the story of Don And Denise Wesley;
Don is still alive  See - innjustice.blogspot.com

**   STORY   -   Jodi Arias Documentary-(In her own words) 48 Hours
***   STORY  -   Twisting tale of love : AZ women gets death penalty

 
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Key words:
Elder Abuse, physical, psychological and financial
Belief in God
Religion
Soul-mates
Marriage contracts
Delusion
Personality Disorders
Near Borderline Personality Disorder
Destruction, theft and the need to kill.
Loving sex
The emotion of kill and revenge.
Abuse transferred over generations.
Children, Grandchildren, Grandparents and Parents.
Divorce Justice
Crime Justice.
Injustice
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