Friday, December 6

Why shouldn't we be surprised, when love fails to fly in family living.

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The Dark Matter of Love Documentary http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNAOkmglLWw

When I did meet the Saull Family; a family that my Dad came from, and I never knew existed, this presented some distress to the family of Denise and Don Wesley.
It would have enhanced both families and made them more loving.
My boys and my brother Vincent Saull's son refused to meet each other.
Denise, was very well accepted and admired. Vincent, loved Denise.
Vincent was a Professor, at McGill University; Geo-Physics, and new little more.
This became a bigger challenge for me to manage. It took more time and energy from me. Vincent, my new brother was in great need of me. He died two  years later.
Denise seemed to feel I was giving up my family to join the Saull family.
I feared the pull of the other family... but was determined never to give up the family I was father of; and certainly not Denise. Don Wesley December 6, 2013.


This drama, has filled in lessons for me, I hadn't completely learned.
I suppose the real knowledge to be learned here,
is "you don't pass until you get it; 100 percent right.
Far too many of us graduate with less and think we can succeed.
If we are to be professional students, then buckle up
and get down to serious learning
This particular video is about 'affection-interaction' among family members.
Particle Physics, talks about finding particles that are missing.
The missing mystery-particles are called Dark Matter.

At 80, I think a lot about love and its absence. Unknown!
We don't fly without becoming a licensed pilot.
Why shouldn't we be surprised,
when love fails to fly in family living.
I abandoned the psychology of Freud and focused on the Behavioural Sciences and God.
 


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