"Instructions that will hurt" - A Reflection by Don Wesley

Short Circuiting Type Instructions - (Don Wesley 1933 – September 30, 2013)

My truest story - I remember,
at this moment started in 2008.
It is now 2013,
and I’m back at the start again.
I can laugh at myself, cause it's only a symptom!

Of having someone being mean to me.

I learned this horrifying lesson,
the day I came into Ottawa
looking for a safe-haven,
that I needed in a hurry! 

Everyone was so "kind" to say not here,
but go over there. So you go there
and over there, following the trail;
And find yourself, back here, where you started.

You know something is wrong;
If you dare travel the short-circuit again.

Why?
Those "kind" people get pissed-off,
by you,
And point to go-off Door.

Maybe now, you can understand why,
I slept all the first winter in my Car.
It was less hurtful, than the door option.

Now I’m even more distressed
and don’t cry any longer
I have made new better decisions.
Beware!

I, [the holy eye] remember those who did this to me.
Before I leave.... here, in the now, is the “Present”

Remember the sin of giving useless instructions;

Cause, "you" are hurting someone.
Give them what they need;
Like a helping hand to hold on too,
and pull them into warm shelter.

And "Shame on you" for hurting who you did.

 

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Getting my side of the Story Known - The Family secret at last (Don Wesley)

1.     TITLE:     A victim Husband - One man with one wife with Multiple Identities 

2.     Monogamy - One man with one wife

3.     Polygamy - One man with more than one wife

4.     A victim Husband - One man with one wife with Multiple Identities 

5.     Multiple Identities -  [a.k.a. Also Know As]  -  Dissociative Identity Disorders.

6.     Attachment Disorders – Injuries to a child – from conception to about the age of six

7.     (It should be noted that the decision to adopt an ethical principle as one's own is a purely personal one, and cannot be forced on someone. However, one cannot adopt a principle one does not know exists. Also, it is not very likely that someone will adopt a principle that is not congruent with his or her mental structure - and this mental structure is so powerfully influenced by early childhood experiences).

8.     Overwhelming power -   ABUSE OF POWER is the illegitimate use of power. 

9.     Bullies -    Someone who uses power illegitimately

10.   Therefore - A wife, who captures her husband’s Castle, is a wife who gets her way by bullying, in a different identity, wearing a mask and living in an unknown address. No summons possible.

11.  End.

The Prevost "T-Bag Ritual" ended the New Year's Day Meal.

September 24, 2013  5:24 PM

I don't blame Denise for our family failing; she tried everything she could find.
The very last two, sitting at the New Year's Table, were Denise and her Mother. They threw the "T-Bag missile" at each other, for what seemed like hours. I was the only one watching their fierce determination - never ever give up. I called it foolish, but it wasn't; it had a purpose, and was a spiritual ritual. Denise loved her Mother.
In my mind, we are still one.
My awareness of Denise is full Love and will never end either.
God Bless us both. 
God Bless everyone.
I can hear the Bells tolling.
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Divorce - Little Children - The Rich

Mark 10 (New International Version)

 

Divorce . . .

10 Jesus then left that place and went into the region of Judea and across the Jordan. Again crowds of people came to him, and as was his custom, he taught them.

² Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?”
³ “What did Moses command you?” he replied.
⁴ They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.”
⁵ “It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied.
⁶ “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.
⁷ For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,
⁸ and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
⁹ Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
¹⁰ When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this.
¹¹ He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her.
¹² And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”

The Little Children . . .

¹³ People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. ¹⁴ When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
¹⁵ Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
¹⁶ And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.

The Rich and the Kingdom of God . . .

¹⁷ As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. “Good teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
¹⁸ “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone.
¹⁹ You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.
²⁰ “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.”
²¹ Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
²² At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.
²³ Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!”
²⁴ The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God!
²⁵ It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”
²⁶ The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, “Who then can be saved?”
²⁷ Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”
²⁸ Then Peter spoke up, “We have left everything to follow you!”
²⁹ “Truly I tell you,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel
³⁰ will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age: homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields—along with persecutions—and in the age to come eternal life.
³¹ But many who are first will be last, and the last first.”

 

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Knowing the "we" and Self discovery - The Holy " I "

Used by Don, to better understand Family Dysfunction,

self discovery and growth.

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