Knowing the "we" and Self discovery - The Holy " I "

Used by Don, to better understand Family Dysfunction,

self discovery and growth.

The Holy " I "  and  the Integrated " All "

A very short aspect, of My Belief System Setmember 19, 2013 [Revised]



I truly thank you for your Precious Reply, it is extremely Valuable for me, in My Passionate Fight against Injustice.

This has been my life long mission. Those close, [not many] who truly see me, have at times, labeled me with the Words "the kindest man they have ever known." My wife at the time in 2008, said this to our Parish Priest over a dinner table. This is the mystery in my personal story, for the Kindest Man revealed to me is Christ, and He is in All of Us. Why do we appear not to see Him everywhere. Could it be we feel ashamed to declare so. I can say with certainty, that comments, from anywhere in Humanity do have a Huge mixture of Thoughts to Ponder, and the Reality is, that "Time" does not allow us to Commit to a Scholarly Review of all the Options.
To get aboard a Train to a Better World does require that we find our way to the Right station with the Right Train.
We don’t want to find ourselves, on a Train to nowhere.
Like many, I try hard to avoid the Temptation to be Perfect, in Everything. I look therefore at the "Whole" of the Mix to find the Stories behind the Story.
Then, I am often too quick to express my findings and that which is given as Free, is often taken as having No Value.
I slowly learned, the Lesson of the Golden Goose. From there-on, I, earned a Handsome living for delivering Intellectual Know-How, which Flowed quickly, from what I do Best, which is to Create Beauty and Wealth, out of Chaos and Dysfunction.
I did my Work in businesses, as a Businessman, and I did find “Evil” present Everywhere.
Does anyone Disagree!
And then one Day on Christmas Eve of 2008, I found Evil in my Home, ... .. . and it shocked and disturbed my State of Contentment!
I felt the "Abuse of Cruelty."
Then, making life even more Revealed to me, I found Evil flourishing in The Courts of Canadian Justice, on the 31st day July, in the year of Our Lord 2009. I was crushed, carrying the Burden.
This awaken in me, the Reality that I was still an Officer of the Crown, which is to say that an Officer of the Court, may one day have to surrender to someone like me.
One Problem, which I always have, is to reveal my thinking with passion and kindness, without pause for refection; I trust Myself and my Integrity.
People who are in my presence, can see the Whole of me, with my full set of Emotions, which includes an abundance of Kindness. I am truly visible, for those who, come without Malice in their Hearts.
If there is a Lesson to recall from the Stories of Wisdom from the past, I offer this you:
The "Whole" is Greater the Sum of the Parts.
This Choice of Focus, of looking at the Whole, which I most always do, is Ordained from Above. I prayed to God, for His eternal help.
The Bedrock of my Foundation rests upon those Skills, which I have learned Most Easily, as He made them available to me in a very Creative Manner.
This "House of Skills and Experience", is my “Belief-System,” and is always accountable for what it delivers.
Love to All,
Don Wesley [From the Silent Generation]
September 19, 2013. Sitting with Hope, in a small town in , Ontario, Canada.

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My Grandchild and Nicky our Dog - Inseparable souls

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Nicky

Who Poisoned Him ?

Where is Zayne ?

Don Knows the Answers !

 

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Ego-centric vs . Socio-centric - A question resolved by Ayn Rand.

Ego-centric vs. Socio-centric

 

They existed only to serve the state. They were conceived in controlled Palaces of Mating. They died in the Home of the Useless. From cradle to grave, the crowd was one—the great WE.
In all that was left of humanity there was only one man who dared to think, seek, and love.
He, Equality 7-2521, came close to losing his life because his knowledge was regarded as a treacherous blasphemy . . . he had rediscovered the lost and holy word - "I"

“I worship individuals for their highest possibilities as individuals, and I loathe humanity, for its failure to live up to these possibilities.”
—Ayn Rand

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Honest, but at times illogical; more common than we think.

(Revised September 15, 2013)
Denise, my partner in marriage [now divorced] is very smart and determined.
She is also honest, but at times illogical;
much more common than we think.

She did her fact finding, and took time to consider and discuss with her friends and the family what she should do, after 47 years of Marriage. She decided to leave me and not tell me, until after she had left.

My problem was that she didn't discuss her options with me, the Patriarch of the family. Her Mother died and left her a buddle of money and a home to live in.

One day in 2007/8, I gave her a New Credit Card with a limit of $90,000.00, with only the interest to pay. There was sufficient wealth to secure the loan for ever. The wealth was all mine.

Shortly after Christmas Eve of 2008, the evening she left me, I learned she was divorcing me.

A few months later on July 31, 2009, I found myself evicted from my own family home and studio, which I bought, and paid for in 1969. It was fully paid for and there were no taxes or other debts outstanding.

To this very day, she claims she is honest and I agree with her. I also say she is often illogical.

I have collected the facts since she left and have analyzed everything.

I have put together, the story of the crime. She was assisted by my two sons and her employer. I deliverrd the facts of this incident to the RCMP in Westmount on the Island of Montreal. I also reported my Lawyer to the Bar of Quebec.

My children live in Ontario and my wife on the Ocean side of Quebec, somewhere unknown.

I know that I'm an elder who has been cruelly abused. I'm 80 years old.

How will this end?   donwesley1933@live.com