Oh, the Love of Children is a powerful reason to have them grow with you.

We all are curious, to some degree.



Don Wesley





Some of us like to investigate!

The most interesting Art for me, is to watch people live.

Seek out all their habits and when and  how they use them.

Pictures also reveal what happened years ago.

The top one just below is an envelope with the "Royal Canadian Armored Corps" symbol. I did my basic military training their. Just below is the back and front side of where I lived, in Montreal, on Saint Luke street, between Saint Mark and Saint Mathew Streets, just across from the Queen Victoria elementary school: also the address of my sister and brother-in-law in the USA.

I really did like to investigate those among us who we needed to catch. Now that habit is well embedded in me:

looking back makes it easier to see their evil (live) behaviors.

All the pictures below; reveal what I was thinking about just a few years ago. Just guess how and why I behave as I have always tried to live. Loving the children in my life: even the adult children we find around us and also those who have multiple personalities.

    



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Below is my brother in law, Peter Canepari.(RIP)

I had just finished my Basic Training in Camp Borden, Ontario.

He my sister and mother and I, went on a vacation trip to visit Niagara Falls and then on to New Jersey to visit a flying School.

I loved this man; He died too young.

He and his son are together now and I miss them

(January  17, 2016)

Hello and welcome into my diary space.
My name is Don. It is November 4, 2014. 5:00am.

 

I thinking about my Sister, Elly and her daughter Claudia.
I dreamed all night-long with my missing family intruding .... my sleep to rest.

 

Today, I'm just re-visiting these words below....

Our family, lost Peter Mark yesterday. He was my sister's first child. I fell in love with him.

Like you, I guess, most all of us love our children.

For a reason, I seemed to protect children as a young boy myself. At this moment, I can't remember where all the words below came from. Some are mine, and others just reflect how I feel about children.

I'm 81 now, but even when I was young, I still felt most everyone was a child. I joined the army at 17 to study how to be an Officer in the military. At 19 I did receive the Queens Commission. Those who get such a title, seem like extra special fatherly men.

We love and are kind; and expect to keep people socially respectable. So we remind everyone when they step out of socially acceptable order.

Since you decided to come in and see what is here below, I would appreciate to hear a word or two, about how you feel reading what is below now. Send me very short email - donwesley1933@live.com.

To see more of my feelings about worldly "what matters or doesn't" see more here - www.google.com/+donwesley 

..........................................

My grand daughter "Zayne" with my Dog "Nicky".
Denise made their matching clothing.
This was in our garden (during the winter)

 

 

 

Me and sister 'Eleanor' (Elly)

 

 

 

 

My very first son from an "annulled" marriage.
We lived together alone for a few years.
He went to a protestant school: and my two boys with Denise went to catholic schools.
Our family was truly "dysfunctional"

This is my first son with Denise Wesley.
He is a psychiatrist now!
"Evidence based"

Steve is sitting in front of his mother.  



Claudia and her brother Peter-mark
My niece and nephew (RIP) 

Me (One year old) and my Dad
He was pleased to know me and my finger talent

Denise dressed in Black ! I wasn't Dead yet!



Below... the thoughts I brought together for myself in 2012.

**** Oh, the Love of Children....  is a powerful reason to have, educate, and build a family.... that protects and holds all of us together.

**** Only an evil-mind can destroy what God has put together. Can you think of other good reasons?

 

**** Unless we believe we are God.... then only you, with another person, can decide to have children of your own.

**** Can you both succeed to avoid giving birth to an evil-mind? That is the big question!
Flaws in Gods perfect children... are random. We are good when born... but none perfect and good enough.

 I would refuse to give any child, to a State who would educate them according to decisions made far away from our home.
Be careful it may happened without you realizing it.
It happened to me in my Province. Fortunately my boys have good “mirror-neurons” and I was kind along with my wife. They learned to copy us before they even went to school. They mirrored what was good in us... before state-schooling. 

They were far from being perfect; but none of us is perfect. One learned to become a medical doctor and then a psychiatrist. But first, he had the freedom to become Mr. Canada a Body-Builder. 

 **** The first huge decision to make, before having children, is who will you join with to become your spouse. Let that be the most wise decision you will ever have to make. Will it be a marriage according to the laws of God? Patriarchal or matriarchal, and so on. Will truth be an ultimate pillar?

**** Depending on the Nation/state and the Culture you live in, these choices may not be yours alone to make.

Leap ahead for a few moments and deal with the situation, we are in right now. What shall we do to better educate our children. You might think of your family organization as being like a farm; it is organic and only you...  manage it.

We are lucky to have so many excellent examples of great organic supply-chain-engines; ones that are good for all stakeholders. Think how well-off we are...  and how much better we can help others become.

**** Just with being kind to each other.

So now, you find yourself with a new-born healthy child and have much to give the child and great experiences to recieve about parenting. Your education in general, may not even be completed. **** So, are you certain.... that you are wise enough to challenge and debate what others think, without having all the facts?

**** Will you choose to use what is already established wisdom, in your State? You may have to get up and move!
**** Just to talk.... and vent our own ego-centric views, fills the minds of others with more confusion and wastes valuable time.

**** The right thind to do, is to use your time to fight lies; other than petty ones. Never ever agree to prejudice. Lies waste scare resources. There is good wisdom available now. Don’t waste time thinking about where elders have already been, and found the honey.

 

You exist now; therefore your elder-ancestors were not stupid. We must be socio-centric and apply situational [meaning with the present facts] wisdom to create new good thinking with flawless logic. This situation itself will bring out inspired good results, from a group or an individual. Be very prudent and think and never destroy.

**** Find, what your mirror-neurons have taught you. If it is found that the educational system is weak, find those or someone you trust to fix it.

**** With the mature skills of an organizational change-architect you can make new designs quickly, without destroying the old building. The leaders will have to be changed!

**** Think of how GM was changed without destroying the good parts of the structure.... that still exist. New and better products are being produced.

**** Now, if you hold the view “that old-is-non-sense“ then find courage to create a new argument and bring it to the advanced and greatest halls of debate.  See and hear whether your argument passes the test of truth.
**** What is true, whether old or knew, is still true. In-divisible truth.
The greatest advances in “freedom-to-choose” have occurred during the last two hundred years of wisdom.

You won’t find such debates in Government. And a public forum is not a place for debate. Would you like to go before the crowd of angry citizens and have them decide to hang you?

History, Literature and the Sciences show us, that all children are born with the same set of emotions, which include anger and hate and the need to kill, to name but a few. Only fearlessness is hard wired. This one trait, that can be used for both good or bad. Really be aware of the presence of this gene within you and others. Know-thyself and then you can see it in others. Because, used with an evil mind and great intelligence it will create enormous suffering.

Our jails are filled with grown-up children, who have destroyed and robbed and killed people. They kill in a never-ending-daily-cycle and not even care. Family members destroy and kill each other. We cause unbelievable suffering. No one group invented killing and certainly not our police forces.

Just stop for a few days and read your local news papers and see the abuse, robbing and killing that goes on.
**** See the corruption that takes place [where money is exchanged] every hour of every day. Who lets it happen?

**** An individual-leader, of a country, who has an evil-mind, is clever enough to organize most minds to destroy. This individual-leader wasn't stopped as a child. That is when they need to be found and healed, if possible.
[See Zimbardo -Ted] It is the system hiding in the Barrel and not the apples that are bad. We own that barrel! 

**** Become a small hero. Don't just talk and confuse. And remember it takes an evil mind to be convicted of a crime. To make an honest mistake, is not an evil mind. An evil-mind doesn't stop to think, To insult and abuse without stopping to think, becomes an evil mind.

Just stop the bad habit of insulting. Help a good brother to stop his bad habit by telling him privately and then publicly if he continues.

Every day, our own societies decide we need organized citizens to protect us. We give these people different names. [Sheriffs, Military, Police, etc.] Every day, your own courts make many decisions, using old laws. We own those courts and laws. We can change how often we vote; therefore we can change laws, with a little patience.

Sir Ken Robinson says we need a revolution to change how we use our precious resources called kids. I agree with him.

 

**** When it comes to court-systems, remember it is just the Barrel we own!

We don't own the people in it and that will become the problem. Why, because they vote too! They like the jobs they have with the money they see going around. Sooner and not later, they ask, "is there any for me!"

Oh how I have witnessed this talk. For me to talk about it, can get me "whacked."  Remember Powell in his talk about kids mentioning the protection he had, to prevent him from being "whacked."

That wasn't a slip of his tongue!

**** I got out of business, so I could tell the Truth about what goes on in it.

My family home was stolen from me, arranged by those who control the orders to "whack an indentified person."

In the “Ted organized talk about Kids, delivered by Colin Powell” we are asked to think about what we can do now as adults to provide productive learning! I suggest that we learn what has already been created, before we destroy it. We may end up with worse not better. But remember that how we live has the most influence. Make sure the teachers are loving and with good habits of living. Expose the children often to the presence of good and well known leaders. Show the kids how they can all become heros,

Ones who have declared the mistakes they have made under pressure, are heros.

**** And remember all children will learn without you teaching them; they only need to “mirror” what they see as good and kind.
[See Ramachandran -Ted]

They avoid automatically what is not kind.

But one who is very intelligent with an evil mind, might just get by the child's protective defense, that god gave her/him. Parents be very aware, but not foolish.

**** The child will even use the bad habits.... we all have. It is foolish to think otherwise. Just showing kindness are the medicines needed. Remember they will have to get jobs in organized structures.
**** Not to study the issue of those who call Powell criminal, is to miss the most inportant lesson of all for parents to learn.

What is an evil mind?

Some may not agree now, but Colin Powell is a great teacher, who is fearless enough to show us he was prepared to die for a Nation he is proud of. He too was wounded in battle. Listen to Billy Graham [Ted Talk] reveal to us that we as individuals are responsible for all man-made suffering in the world.

** Until we as individuals stop evil, we will always need the military...  just like we need the brigades of police and firefighters. One little farming town, in old days, needed only 1 Cop.

I grew up in a time when it was declared by most everyone that it was imperative to see, hear and do something about evil. We are in that situation now! I saw the tears of adults around me who lost family members because of evil minds.

I am inclined to think that Colin hates those evil minded people who destroy, steal and kill without any thought for the victims and their families, and the losses in wealth to our countries. Think of all the corruption we see and tolerate every day.

Listen to stories of other fearless people, who save you from fires or fly in space.

Listen to Sir Ken Robinson talk about fearless people who decide to be become fire fighters. Think of the police who get killed doing their work. Think of those who died in the Twin Towers. Think of those families who get divorced and lose all the wealth to some unknown court officers. Learn to distinguish evil minds from compassionate minds, it is imperative for each of us to know the difference. Ignorance is not an acceptable Vice.

It is us, who do nothing about it who are evil; it is the business of humanity to declare we own the barrel!

....................................

"I want to know God's thoughts; the rest are details."

"He who joyfully marches to music rank and file, has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would surely suffice. This disgrace to civilization should be done away with at once. Heroism at command, how violently I hate all this, how despicable and ignoble war is; I would rather be torn to shreds than be a part of so base an action. It is my conviction that killing under the cloak of war is nothing but an act of murder."

  The - Quotes from Albert Einstein 

donwesley1933@live.com

I took the high "Way" and she
preferred the very low "Road"

I gave up eating him and returned him to the river.
The Rideau Canal  to Ottawa 



I thinking about my Sister, Elly and her daughter Claudia.
I dreamed all night-long with my missing family intruding .... my sleep to rest.

Today, I'm just re-visiting these words below....

Our family, lost Peter Mark yesterday. He was my sister's first child. I fell in love with him.

Like you, I guess, most all of us love our children.

For a reason, I seemed to protect children as a young boy myself. At this moment, I can't remember where all the words below came from. Some are mine, and others just reflect how I feel about children.

I'm 81 now, but even when I young, I still felt most everyone was a child. I joined the army at 17 to study how to be an Officer in the military. At 19 I did receive the Queens Commission. Those who get such a title, seem like extra special fatherly men.
We love and are kind; and expect to keep people socially respectable. So we remind everyone when they step out of socially acceptable order.

Since you decided to come in and see what is here below, I would appreciate to hear a word or two, about how you feel reading what is below now. Send me very short email - donwesley1933@live.com.

To see more of my feelings about worldly "what matters or doesn't" see more here - www.google.com/+donwesley 

..........................................

 

Below... the thoughts I brought together for myself in 2012.

**** Oh, the Love of Children....  is a powerful reason to have, educate, and build a family.... that protects and holds all of us together.

**** Only an evil-mind can destroy what God has put together. Can you think of other good reasons?

 

**** Unless we believe we are God.... then only you, with another person, can decide to have children of your own.

**** Can you both succeed to avoid giving birth to an evil-mind? That is the big question!
Flaws in Gods perfect children... are random. We are good when born... but none perfect and good enough.

 I would refuse to give any child, to a State who would educate them according to decisions made far away from our home.
Be careful it may happened without you realizing it.
It happened to me in my Province. Fortunately my boys have good “mirror-neurons” and I was kind along with my wife. They learned to copy us before they even went to school. They mirrored what was good in us... before state-schooling. 

They were far from being perfect; but none of us is perfect. One learned to become a medical doctor and then a psychiatrist. But first, he had the freedom to become Mr. Canada a Body-Builder. 

 **** The first huge decision to make, before having children, is who will you join with to become your spouse. Let that be the most wise decision you will ever have to make. Will it be a marriage according to the laws of God? Patriarchal or matriarchal, and so on. Will truth be an ultimate pillar?

**** Depending on the Nation/state and the Culture you live in, these choices may not be yours alone to make.

Leap ahead for a few moments and deal with the situation, we are in right now. What shall we do to better educate our children. You might think of your family organization as being like a farm; it is organic and only you...  manage it.

We are lucky to have so many excellent examples of great organic supply-chain-engines; ones that are good for all stakeholders. Think how well-off we are...  and how much better we can help others become.

**** Just with being kind to each other.

So now, you find yourself with a new-born healthy child and have much to give the child and great experiences to recieve about parenting. Your education in general, may not even be completed. **** So, are you certain.... that you are wise enough to challenge and debate what others think, without having all the facts?

**** Will you choose to use what is already established wisdom, in your State? You may have to get up and move!
**** Just to talk.... and vent our own ego-centric views, fills the minds of others with more confusion and wastes valuable time.

**** The right thind to do, is to use your time to fight lies; other than petty ones. Never ever agree to prejudice. Lies waste scare resources. There is good wisdom available now. Don’t waste time thinking about where elders have already been, and found the honey.

 

You exist now; therefore your elder-ancestors were not stupid. We must be socio-centric and apply situational [meaning with the present facts] wisdom to create new good thinking with flawless logic. This situation itself will bring out inspired good results, from a group or an individual. Be very prudent and think and never destroy.

**** Find, what your mirror-neurons have taught you. If it is found that the educational system is weak, find those or someone you trust to fix it.

**** With the mature skills of an organizational change-architect you can make new designs quickly, without destroying the old building. The leaders will have to be changed!

**** Think of how GM was changed without destroying the good parts of the structure.... that still exist. New and better products are being produced.

**** Now, if you hold the view “that old-is-non-sense“ then find courage to create a new argument and bring it to the advanced and greatest halls of debate.  See and hear whether your argument passes the test of truth.
**** What is true, whether old or knew, is still true. In-divisible truth.
The greatest advances in “freedom-to-choose” have occurred during the last two hundred years of wisdom.

You won’t find such debates in Government. And a public forum is not a place for debate. Would you like to go before the crowd of angry citizens and have them decide to hang you?

History, Literature and the Sciences show us, that all children are born with the same set of emotions, which include anger and hate and the need to kill, to name but a few. Only fearlessness is hard wired. This one trait, that can be used for both good or bad. Really be aware of the presence of this gene within you and others. Know-thyself and then you can see it in others. Because, used with an evil mind and great intelligence it will create enormous suffering.

Our jails are filled with grown-up children, who have destroyed and robbed and killed people. They kill in a never-ending-daily-cycle and not even care. Family members destroy and kill each other. We cause unbelievable suffering. No one group invented killing and certainly not our police forces.

Just stop for a few days and read your local news papers and see the abuse, robbing and killing that goes on.
**** See the corruption that takes place [where money is exchanged] every hour of every day. Who lets it happen?

**** An individual-leader, of a country, who has an evil-mind, is clever enough to organize most minds to destroy. This individual-leader wasn't stopped as a child. That is when they need to be found and healed, if possible.
[See Zimbardo -Ted] It is the system hiding in the Barrel and not the apples that are bad. We own that barrel! 

**** Become a small hero. Don't just talk and confuse. And remember it takes an evil mind to be convicted of a crime. To make an honest mistake, is not an evil mind. An evil-mind doesn't stop to think, To insult and abuse without stopping to think, becomes an evil mind.

Just stop the bad habit of insulting. Help a good brother to stop his bad habit by telling him privately and then publicly if he continues.

Every day, our own societies decide we need organized citizens to protect us. We give these people different names. [Sheriffs, Military, Police, etc.] Every day, your own courts make many decisions, using old laws. We own those courts and laws. We can change how often we vote; therefore we can change laws, with a little patience.

Sir Ken Robinson says we need a revolution to change how we use our precious resources called kids. I agree with him.

 

**** When it comes to court-systems, remember it is just the Barrel we own!

We don't own the people in it and that will become the problem. Why, because they vote too! They like the jobs they have with the money they see going around. Sooner and not later, they ask, "is there any for me!"

Oh how I have witnessed this talk. For me to talk about it, can get me "whacked."  Remember Powell in his talk about kids mentioning the protection he had, to prevent him from being "whacked."

That wasn't a slip of his tongue!

**** I got out of business, so I could tell the Truth about what goes on in it.

My family home was stolen from me, arranged by those who control the orders to "whack an indentified person."

In the “Ted organized talk about Kids, delivered by Colin Powell” we are asked to think about what we can do now as adults to provide productive learning! I suggest that we learn what has already been created, before we destroy it. We may end up with worse not better. But remember that how we live has the most influence. Make sure the teachers are loving and with good habits of living. Expose the children often to the presence of good and well known leaders. Show the kids how they can all become heros,

Ones who have declared the mistakes they have made under pressure, are heros.

**** And remember all children will learn without you teaching them; they only need to “mirror” what they see as good and kind.
[See Ramachandran -Ted]

They avoid automatically what is not kind.

But one who is very intelligent with an evil mind, might just get by the child's protective defense, that god gave her/him. Parents be very aware, but not foolish.

**** The child will even use the bad habits.... we all have. It is foolish to think otherwise. Just showing kindness are the medicines needed. Remember they will have to get jobs in organized structures.
**** Not to study the issue of those who call Powell criminal, is to miss the most inportant lesson of all for parents to learn.

What is an evil mind?

Some may not agree now, but Colin Powell is a great teacher, who is fearless enough to show us he was prepared to die for a Nation he is proud of. He too was wounded in battle. Listen to Billy Graham [Ted Talk] reveal to us that we as individuals are responsible for all man-made suffering in the world.

** Until we as individuals stop evil, we will always need the military...  just like we need the brigades of police and firefighters. One little farming town, in old days, needed only 1 Cop.

I grew up in a time when it was declared by most everyone that it was imperative to see, hear and do something about evil. We are in that situation now! I saw the tears of adults around me who lost family members because of evil minds.

I am inclined to think that Colin hates those evil minded people who destroy, steal and kill without any thought for the victims and their families, and the losses in wealth to our countries. Think of all the corruption we see and tolerate every day.

Listen to stories of other fearless people, who save you from fires or fly in space.

Listen to Sir Ken Robinson talk about fearless people who decide to be become fire fighters. Think of the police who get killed doing their work. Think of those who died in the Twin Towers. Think of those families who get divorced and lose all the wealth to some unknown court officers. Learn to distinguish evil minds from compassionate minds, it is imperative for each of us to know the difference. Ignorance is not an acceptable Vice.

It is us, who do nothing about it who are evil; it is the business of humanity to declare we own the barrel!

....................................

"I want to know God's thoughts; the rest are details."

"He who joyfully marches to music rank and file, has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would surely suffice. This disgrace to civilization should be done away with at once. Heroism at command, how violently I hate all this, how despicable and ignoble war is; I would rather be torn to shreds than be a part of so base an action. It is my conviction that killing under the cloak of war is nothing but an act of murder."

  The - Quotes from Albert Einstein 

donwesley1933@live.com