To the Editor - Victims in the Family Courts

17/03/2010 10:14:09AM
Dear Editor,
Yesterday, my wife’s friend, said it could be more than a year
before the proceeds of the sale of my home flow from the final divorce hearings.


I am still homeless and still in need of re-homing. I was made homeless by a Court Order
being issued to evict me from my home and I never saw the allegations which the Court judge
used to make such an order.


My basic right to my home was denied me; a violation of my human rights and my lawyer
did nothing to stop this; instead he encouraged the process to continue, because he claimed
he knew better. In fact both my lawyer and Denise’s lawyer sat together across a table
from me and told me so, just before the eviction.


If you have ever been on a camping trip, you know you control when to pack up
and get back home again. But being made homeless without a tent and all the associated equipment is another story; and knowing you cannot go back home.
And the months go by; the season changes and you freeze to near death in your car.
This really happened to me; and I could not be in contact with my home within
100 meters, without being arrested and jailed.
A charitable citizen came to my aid; Herbert Foxwell paid for a month of motel for me.


Many more people saw the criminal neglect abuse that I was being captive to suffer.
What I describe above is violent abuse to an individual; a crime as detailed in the criminal code.
It is against the law, everyone will tell you; except when it has been framed and accepted by the family court it is not treated as a crime.
An RCMP officer at the Montréal court house told me so; he said he watched families being devastated daily by the kind of events that have happen to me, and there is absolutely nothing he can do about it.
Similarly a police officer in the city of Ottawa told me so, saying it always boils down to the sociopathic behaviour of the two lawyers involved.
They have neither conscience nor remorse for the victims and see only to their greed for the cash that will flow to them from the sale of your home.

There was in fact nothing that I had ever done or even could imagine doing that should
have given the Judge the power to evict a citizen from his home; nothing except a hidden affidavit with distorted truths.
The overwhelming power of the court resulted in 3 police cars with a Bailiff telling me
to leave my home immediately or be arrested. This happened to me July 29, 2009.
My home that I bought and paid for in 1969 which was also my studio and offices; a place where I created knowledge (intellectual property) to sell for a living.
The home, I planned to have grown around us and care for us until death did us part.
It was a family home.


However one day my wife Denise suffering from a mental ‘intra-psychic conflict’
made an irrational decision to leave the marriage, and start a divorce.
Intra-Psychic conflicts are usually a temporary disorder which can be relieved by using the help of highly specialized psychological professionals. Depending on the dominant
personality involved some ‘Intra-Psychic conflicts’ are very dangerous and deliver vindictive behaviour; enough to murder its intended victim. This not a matter for the Courts.
An Intra-Psychic conflict is not a conflict with the marriage partner.
In my intuited thinking, these happenings, are a clear result of our court system
allowing Denise’s motion to enter the court system.
This not the proper framing of the conflict! The court accepted this motion knowing it would it create unintended harm to both the parties. The parties would lose all their wealth; wealth that took a life time of work to accumulate for their retirement years would be transferred to persons within the court system.


News papers have published numerous editorial essays which have explained that this harm occurs.
At this moment in time there is insufficient public support for making changes to our society,
that will stop ‘dead in it tracts’ these kinds of abuse to families.
This has devastated me personally; and it is happening daily to family units throughout our nation.
The court system has a chain of processing operations make this happen; and they charge
you for what they call a value adding chain processing which allows our government to collect taxes on.

Think about this from another frame of view; they collect taxes to withdraw the wealth of divorcing couples; couples who had a psychological conflict, to be dealt with and nothing more.
This destructive process is cyclically going on every day in our own court system. If sounds crazy to hear this point of view, it is a truthful view of exactly what is going on.
It is useful for me to add that the Courts answer only to themselves.


Consider Key words like Court, logic, justice.They are common.
How about key words such as Court, Crazy logic, Harry Potter?
Married 46 years, living 41 in the same home and raising 3 sons I am about to enter my
78th year, on the planet in one of the most peaceful (without war) countries of the world,
but a country that allows this to happen on a daily basis to families who were free from violence but had a person to person communication problem only or an Intra-Psychic conflict of one partner.
The court is exhibiting symptoms of Schizophrenia, that is to say they don’t seem to see what damage they are doing to so many citizens by using ex-parte affidavits and sociopathic employees to issue unconscionable judgements.
Conflicts between a company employee and the company are resolved by the human resources department very quickly because unresolved conflicts destroy
the willingness to work. This human resource process is well described in books on human resource management; books I studied while in my 20’s.
But the divorce courts are ignorant of this knowledge; imagine ignorant of this knowledge.
Companies are not ignorant of this knowledge but our courts are when it comes to family affairs.
I do not blame all court employees but I am framing a view that shows the system architecture is badly flawed and it needs more than logic to repair; it needs the intuitively inspired problem solving ability.

The Science of logic, invented by Aristotle, could be used for checking truth of a statement and inferences drawn from it.
According to him, priori is the inherent store of knowledge and is beyond proof. Man inheritintly believes in it.
Posterior knowledge is based on personal experience and can be falsified due to number of errors. Logic is an instrument of thought by which truth can be differentiated from false but eventually source of untruth and limitations were found in logic also.
Logic could not discover new knowledge. It gyrates within original proposition from which it inferred certain conclusions.
Man needed something more than logic to discover new knowledge; otherwise man would be whirling round and round of his own making.
He has to intuit it from nature or his previous store of knowledge.
By this act of intuition man could not carry out extended reasoning but only jump away and beyond his previous store of knowledge.
Belief on intuited knowledge is characterized by suddenness, completeness and conviction without necessity of proof. Intuition is its own proof.

A quotation from a recognized source. Within the general population there are 4 ‘sociopaths’ per 100. According to English studies each ‘socio path’ is responsible for $50,000.00 of damage yearly.


I wrote this letter while sitting in the ‘free kitchen area’ in the Ottawa Sikh Temple, a place of remarkable social value to our nation.
A civil engineer who is doing additional studies in Bio-Mass microbiology to develop
knowledge for the new world emerging; a wise young Sikh man who lives in Toronto and has stayed at this temple which has become my office for the day. He has read and approved of this document.
“I must make myself a better communicator with greater detachment” he has humbly suggested to me. 17/03/2010 4:28 PM.


Dr Kohli, Author of Unique Master has read and approved this of this document as has, Harjinder Sandhu, Sikh Lawyer age 35 another reader approved of this document

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