I bring this forward now, to explain what
President Obama politely avoided
In
July 2016 on the 10th day
BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge
Uploaded on Dec 2, 2009
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Too many people with
Borderline Personality Disorder are seeking to get justice or revenge in the here and now with loved ones or people close to them.
Borderlines are really trying to get revenge for or justice for past woundedness that was not caused by the loved ones that it may be directed at and often in abusive ways.
Devaluation Projection and
Lack of Trust in
Borderline Personality Disorder
A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach, talks about how the negative thinking experienced in the devaluing half of borderline splitting clouds the reality that people with Borderline Personality Disorder experience victimization that they think is coming from others that is really projected out on to others from what is the borderline lack of self. It is from this devaluation and projection that people with BPD experience what they perceive to be abandonment and betrayal that warrants or supports what is their own lack of trust to begin with.
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com
http://ajmahari.ca
http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca