Sunday, July 10

BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge

I bring this forward now, to explain what

President Obama politely avoided

July 2016 on the 10th day

BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge

Uploaded on Dec 2, 2009

Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.

Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.

A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.

Too many people with
Borderline Personality Disorder are seeking to get justice or revenge in the here and now with loved ones or people close to them.

Borderlines are really trying to get revenge for or justice for past woundedness that was not caused by the loved ones that it may be directed at and often in abusive ways.

Devaluation Projection and

Lack of Trust in

Borderline Personality Disorder 

A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach, talks about how the negative thinking experienced in the devaluing half of borderline splitting clouds the reality that people with Borderline Personality Disorder experience victimization that they think is coming from others that is really projected out on to others from what is the borderline lack of self. It is from this devaluation and projection that people with BPD experience what they perceive to be abandonment and betrayal that warrants or supports what is their own lack of trust to begin with.

To Create what Intuition Reveals

To Create what Intuition Reveals,
You must Leave the Path of Logic.
One could say leap out of logic.
The courts insist on Logic and that, is where
 The Devil wants to keep you.
When you finally see the truth
 It springs out to Hold you
With Loving Kindness!
Find the box and Unlatch the Lid.
'Voila' -  Jumping Jacks and Open sesame.
The Process is -
Open Books and Heads of Wisdom
Leap out of Logic and
Find the Golden Geese.
by Don Wesley July 2012


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