Showing posts with label BPD. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BPD. Show all posts
Wednesday, January 4
Monday, August 1
Sunday, July 31
BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge
I bring this forward now, to explain what
President Obama politely avoided
In
July 2016 on the 10th day
BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge
Uploaded on Dec 2, 2009
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Too many people with
Borderline Personality Disorder are seeking to get justice or revenge in the here and now with loved ones or people close to them.
Borderlines are really trying to get revenge for or justice for past woundedness that was not caused by the loved ones that it may be directed at and often in abusive ways.
Devaluation Projection and
Lack of Trust in
Borderline Personality Disorder
A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach, talks about how the negative thinking experienced in the devaluing half of borderline splitting clouds the reality that people with Borderline Personality Disorder experience victimization that they think is coming from others that is really projected out on to others from what is the borderline lack of self. It is from this devaluation and projection that people with BPD experience what they perceive to be abandonment and betrayal that warrants or supports what is their own lack of trust to begin with.
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com
http://ajmahari.ca
http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca
Wednesday, July 27
Denise Wesley (Prevost) RIP ~ My Sweetheart - Soul-Mate
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She had BPD and Doctor Lundell
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Don in Happier days
I'm here to be with Her.
www.google.com/+donwesley
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I am very Sad ~ 2016 - 07 - 27 |
Denise, was and is my Angle.
And she suffered from Borderline Disorder.
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Sunday, July 10
BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge
I bring this forward now, to explain what
President Obama politely avoided
In
July 2016 on the 10th day
BPD ~ An Unreal Need for Revenge
Uploaded on Dec 2, 2009
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Counsellor, BPD Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has a new ebook available now entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones.
Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD.
A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right.
Too many people with
Borderline Personality Disorder are seeking to get justice or revenge in the here and now with loved ones or people close to them.
Borderlines are really trying to get revenge for or justice for past woundedness that was not caused by the loved ones that it may be directed at and often in abusive ways.
Devaluation Projection and
Lack of Trust in
Borderline Personality Disorder
A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach, talks about how the negative thinking experienced in the devaluing half of borderline splitting clouds the reality that people with Borderline Personality Disorder experience victimization that they think is coming from others that is really projected out on to others from what is the borderline lack of self. It is from this devaluation and projection that people with BPD experience what they perceive to be abandonment and betrayal that warrants or supports what is their own lack of trust to begin with.
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com
http://ajmahari.ca
http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca
Thursday, June 30
A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms ~ Attacks Her Husband.
(The Victim ~ Lyndon Fawcett)
A TRUE Story by Don Wesley
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| My 2 Sons |
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| My Denise - BPD |
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| Me - Another Older Victim; helping Lyndon Fawcett |
A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms.
Attacks Her Husband.
The Husband was attacked by his wife.
April 11, 2016. Past midnight By Don Wesley
1) While He was sleeping, she cut herself and then called the police 911, to say he cut her.
2) This happened In Ottawa. April 10, 2016.
3) I met Him in Winchester Tim Hortons, just about Midnight. We were strangers.
4) He had paid $90.00 for a Taxi to drive him to Hortons.
5) He was waiting for his Aunt Maria to pick him up.
6) He appeared very anxious waiting for his aunt.
7) I felt his unease, and asked why he was so anxious. His reply was part of the sentences above.
8) Given my experience and empathy I suggested and he accepted my experienced help. He expressed his appreciation several times. He seemed compassionate.
9) He is 40 with 3 children and his wife according to him has a very serious drinking problem.
10) I drove him to his aunt at 12413 Barkley Road, Williamsburg.
11) His wife, by calling the police resulted that He was charged by the Ottawa Police
12) He was taken to the Ottawa City Police Station, where a Detective had a Conversation with Him and then asked Questions. He denied that, He even touched his wife.
He was sleeping before she arrived
13) The husband has objective evidence , that she drinks and is very argumentative.
14) He has pictures of Her bite marks on His leg and ankle.
15) He has evidence over 8 years of being together.
3 children , the oldest is 11.
16) His wife brought the children to her mother and returned to tell her husband to leave.
2) This happened In Ottawa. April 10, 2016.
3) I met Him in Winchester Tim Hortons, just about Midnight. We were strangers.
4) He had paid $90.00 for a Taxi to drive him to Hortons.
5) He was waiting for his Aunt Maria to pick him up.
6) He appeared very anxious waiting for his aunt.
7) I felt his unease, and asked why he was so anxious. His reply was part of the sentences above.
8) Given my experience and empathy I suggested and he accepted my experienced help. He expressed his appreciation several times. He seemed compassionate.
9) He is 40 with 3 children and his wife according to him has a very serious drinking problem.
10) I drove him to his aunt at 12413 Barkley Road, Williamsburg.
11) His wife, by calling the police resulted that He was charged by the Ottawa Police
12) He was taken to the Ottawa City Police Station, where a Detective had a Conversation with Him and then asked Questions. He denied that, He even touched his wife.
He was sleeping before she arrived
13) The husband has objective evidence , that she drinks and is very argumentative.
14) He has pictures of Her bite marks on His leg and ankle.
15) He has evidence over 8 years of being together.
3 children , the oldest is 11.
16) His wife brought the children to her mother and returned to tell her husband to leave.
17) He, having no place go except to is aunts home. A $90.00 Taxi drive to Winchester.
18) He says he was fed up with her arguments and admittedly feeling annoyed. Always self controlled annoyance
19) My conclusion, based upon serious study since 2000, is that His wife was abused as a child [Trauma] and has all the symptoms of Borderline Disorder - with the usual
self-injuries.
20) Their children are also at risk with his wife; she could kill them or injure them in some less permanent way
18) He says he was fed up with her arguments and admittedly feeling annoyed. Always self controlled annoyance
19) My conclusion, based upon serious study since 2000, is that His wife was abused as a child [Trauma] and has all the symptoms of Borderline Disorder - with the usual
self-injuries.
20) Their children are also at risk with his wife; she could kill them or injure them in some less permanent way
21) These injured women, have an impulse control problem.
22) They are very dangerous, many studies reveal this true.
23) Many more studies, can reveal that Husbands are seeing injustice hit them; financially, morally and psychologically.
24) These psychic injuries are being seen by Family Doctors as PTSD. This is a long term injury caused by someone other than the victim. It makes the victim too anxious.
23) Many more studies, can reveal that Husbands are seeing injustice hit them; financially, morally and psychologically.
24) These psychic injuries are being seen by Family Doctors as PTSD. This is a long term injury caused by someone other than the victim. It makes the victim too anxious.
-See ....
25) http://innjustice.blogspot.ca/2015/04/complex-ptsd-post-traumatic-stress.html
26) The police charge itself,
is one more traumatic attack !
Why are police attacking Him instead of defending Him?
27) He works in the Construction Industry when the weather permits.
28) His wife was arguing with His co-worker this April 10, same evening. The argument seemed too serious.
29) He asked His co-worker to leave; so he did.
30) This all fits those Who have been abused as a children.
This is the Borderline Disorder set of symptoms.
30) They were all drinking.
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25) http://innjustice.blogspot.ca/2015/04/complex-ptsd-post-traumatic-stress.html
26) The police charge itself,
is one more traumatic attack !
Why are police attacking Him instead of defending Him?
27) He works in the Construction Industry when the weather permits.
28) His wife was arguing with His co-worker this April 10, same evening. The argument seemed too serious.
29) He asked His co-worker to leave; so he did.
30) This all fits those Who have been abused as a children.
This is the Borderline Disorder set of symptoms.
30) They were all drinking.
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Here are some lessons about
BPD and Impulse Control.
Sunday, April 17
"The Way We Were" 1973 - Music Video - Barbra Streisand
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April 17, 2016
Still waiting
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Don |
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Denise |
Uploaded on Apr 23, 2008
Film from The Way We Were 1973
Music by Barbra Streisand -
The Way We Were Memories
Like the corners of my mind
Misty water-color memories
Of the way we were
Scattered pictures
Of the smiles we left behind
Smiles we gave to one another
For the way we were
Can it be that it was all so simple then
Or has time rewritten every line
If we had the chance to do it all again
Tell me - would we? could we?
Memories
May be beautiful and yet
What's too painful to remember
We simply choose to forget
So it is the laughter
We will remember
Whenever we remember
The way we were
Saturday, April 16
Sun Light comes From God - All Can Use Sunlight.
Only God has The Power ...
All Can Use His Sunlight.
April 17, 2016.
A Message From A Light Technician
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| A Light Technician named Don |
"God Gives and Governs the Energy He Sends Us."
Sunlight is His Power Delivered: Visible and Free to All"
Sunlight is His Power Delivered: Visible and Free to All"
"Those who Believe Their Leader has this Power of Love
Have Turned into Monsters: Pure Evil."
Have Turned into Monsters: Pure Evil."
The psychology of Evil
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