So this blog story, is Story of Love and not simply about an un-conscionable judgement from the Family Court System, or as I called it in 2010 a story about an injustice. And I'm not against women whatsoever; just horrified by intelligent women who submit to the Prince of Darkness at times. I'm no longer bitter. 'They're hiding evidence,' I say as a survivor!
You can see both my PT Cruiser and my Buick Century in the driveway
I received a veiled death threat and "Nicky" was poisoned a few days later.
They destroyed and took what was left over and sold it.
Michael was in a rush to get back to Ontario.
"It wasn't their home to take and sell"
Today, I'm going on into 81. Not in Florida for the winter, but here where the weather last night was 39 degrees below freezing. The auto wouldn't run because gas line water vapor turned into ice.
Don - contented - 2008 - In his Retirement Home Studio.
I bought the home in 1969, knowing I had found the new perfect community that would meet all needs, when we retired.
I had earned enough income to do this easily. This in itself was extraordinary at my age. I didn't inherit my wealth, I had earned it.
My wife brought herself into the marriage and nothing more, but knew that in the future she would inherit her parents modest wealth. She did in 2008. Her stay was free. Our personal joint plan was to combine all wealth and live together until death did us part. Somewhere she changed her mind I didn't tell me. I did act, before marriage to prevent this miss-fortune from happening. I still Love this woman and have romantic feeling for her.
This was breaking our dreams she said, at the time she left.
In her Dear Don Letter.
A few months later she was reading a book titled -
"Dreams never Expire"
Denise was really depressed at this time.
Should she or not leave the Marriage?
This wasn't a relationship and there is a
Marriage Contract, which predetermined how it could end.
She was impulsive and just left on Xmas Eve 2008.
She had this planned but didn't tell Don.
She planned a trip to Paris.
Everything I did after 1969, was to keep us in this state of contentment. Just imagine "a state of contentment" when I was 36 and she was 29.
She had all she needed; for our children to be schooled properly and great friends surrounding us. The community was young and very wealthy.
I also bought her a new car every three years.
The home was big enough, to include a little motel for weekend family visitors. Her family visited regularly. I was given the gift of having my Son Stevens' children stay with us at times when they came to visit Montreal.
See here - Zayne and my dog Nicky.
Denise had her dog Nelly.
"I have deep cuts, where you cut yourselves out of me - Don"
I even organized to buy another near-by small home for my mother and her sister to stay-in until they passed-on. I was given the money to do this for them. That plan was stalled by my wife's actions.
The property was perfectly located for family living; and I added to it's improvement on a daily basis, from 1969 until July 2009 - 40 years. Most of those years were filled with happiness, including beautiful funerals for our parents.
When I say it was perfect for a retiring couple, I mean it was more than perfect; it was a little paradise. Even home care if we needed it.
In 2008, I was in the process of sorting out my personal items which I used to write and produce intellectual property, and to inventory the surplus hardware. The memories and new ideas flooded my mind and together with the new technology of digital photography and computing and the internet, life was a joy and not a moment was boring. I gave Denise all she needed to keep up with me.
I knew where we would die and where we would be buried. Our community was the ultimate on the Island of Montreal.
In the fall of 2008, I organized to sell off what I didn't need. Call it getting rid of the clutter.
Unknown to me at the time, was that another plan had been completed by my wife, and my three sons, and it was in operation. The intent, was morally evil and the logic was filled with errors. She saw the same beautiful future ahead and put it out of her mind.
1% of the population has this very serious problem - two personalities, one doesn't know the other one. It is an identity disorder of the mind. It most often occurs when as child, they experience horrible abuse. Had I known this fact, my plans would have included a proper solution.
My wife claimed she inherited the home!
I'm not certain who this personality was.
One certainly creates situations which are not true. At her mother's funeral, her nephew Sylvain told me this old family secret; it was the very last time I saw him. His picture in on my cover page on Facebook, along with two of my sons, Steven and Michael. They are part of the crime story.
Wow, this eviction, was an abusive shock to me. They succeeded using perjury to have me evicted. This story of eviction is well covered in this blog.
It happened in the morning of July 31, 2009.
In the early afternoon I saw Michael from Ontario with his Ontario licensed truck. I spoke to him and took his picture. Their coordinated timing was done over the telephone. I have the telephone bills.
I was also a young military officer in the signal corps. The maximum power is what I used; better than money or a police gun and it takes patience to collect; its called objective evidence and I have it.
Not allowing me to tell the Crime Story would be the ultimate abuse they can injure me with.
My wife had an "old friend employer" who was the know-how expert. The plan was to label me as an old man, who was mentally and physically feeble and deliver me into another old age retirement home. She knew the lawyer who is the expert. This plan is a conspiracy. Two of my most active sons, who assisted live in Ontario.
I escaped to Ontario, in 2009, to avoid the possibility of a false arrest. I slept in my automobile during the winter of 2009-10.
I didn't know this plan that had been discussed for years. Had I known, the theft of all my belongings could have been avoided. So the theft is fraudulent. And given that there is a Marriage Contract signed by both of us before, she became Mrs. Denise Wesley, there is been a breach of Trust.
These crimes... that had to be committed to succeed, have been done. My old friend and lawyer, Clive Allen, predicted this could happen; he wrote the marriage contract, with the intention of preventing such immoral behavior, which was well known at the time. Unfortunately he was retired when I most needed him.
I now live in a 100 square foot room [rented] alone, with nothing but a few clothes, in a community that has nothing for the elderly. This room is a bit bigger than a prison-cell and is temporary, meaning I'll have to move again, too soon. It is a very old small town in Ontario, with a huge Nestle Plant that was closed years ago.
This story is just beginning to be told now and remember this is now a Crime Story, I'm writing.
The court case is over. The Canada-Service-Department is investigating the identity problem involving my wife.
As an ending and a new beginning, here is my present statement... "I'm not mentally feeble and I'm physically well and going on into 81 in April.
Next year would been our 50th anniversary
The abuse I've absorbed is another story."
"How Denise Wesley and Don both learned to survive, as children. "
This page will help me explain, why I'm alive, at 80. I learned as a child to be fearless. We need powerful very short stories that teach; if we are to survive the Intellect that is used to destroy, steal and Kill. If this story doesn't fly, I'll write another one.
Deadly Women- Intellect Used For Evil. Kim Snibson, used her intellect in order to brutally murder
This is about how we, as a children, adapt to avoid being hurt at 3,4,5 ... years of age and even more,
A) Loosing parents and being adopted is one example of feeling abandoned.(Don)
B) Another example is sexual abuse - violent.
C) Some other abuse is so violent, we imagine it never happened. (Denise) This causes serious mental disorders in adulthood
D) In a good family environment the child grows up and fits into the village-society more normally. Every hurt-child grows up with a 'shield' to protect them. The shield makes the child very different in the village-society and they fit-in very abnormally.
My wife Denise and I, were both hurt as children. We first met as adults and were attracted to each other. We are both more sensitive than normal people. You could say were abnormal children and even more abnormal adults. Were a married couple known to get almost anything done. Just ask and Denise ran to help you. I will even go further and say we were a precious, loving, caring and giving couple, and seen as standing at a higher spiritual level. Denise was framed as a Eucharist minister in the catholic church. However, Denise left our marriage after 45 years together, as if, it never existed. This is also known an Identity disorder with other disorders mixed in. For Don her soul-mate, what was left over is torture, and no castle to live. Denise is very intelligent and was quick to learn, from her Mother; that to live and survive in a farming-region, with cold winter months, one needed to collect money in the summer. There many ways of doing this, we all know.
I Don, had to learn quickly to survive by the hour, without his loving parents, sometimes alone for hours and sometimes left on someone's doorsteps for a meal. For a child, this is a very frightening situation.
His parents God Bless them, had to work every day. The depression years in a big City.They taught Don to pray to God, and to ask God to protect him. So Don, at the very end of each prayer would say ..
"God, now I going to sleep, please protect my soul, and if I should die before I'm awake, please take my soul to heaven."
My parents had nothing more they could give me.
They were not intending to be cruel nor did they abuse me; they did love me. The situation abused me; especially while still in a crib.
This explains why my head is flat at the back. It also explains why the English were called square heads. I remember falling and hitting my head and Denise laughing, because she felt my head was rather flat at the back
Then while awake, I often was afraid of the dark and strange noises. While asleep I was in the hand's of God. As I got older and out of the crib, I learned to become fearless all the time. I had pictures of me with my fist-up and threatening someone. My Mother also learned as young girl to raise her fist-up to any man who got sexy.
Denise on the other hand, learned that collecting pennies in the summer was needed by the family to survive thru the winter. In summer they moved out of the farm house to rent it for summer vacationers, for a few dollars. This was the rule of Mother. Boys and their father worked in the farm fields. Sometimes girls too.
So Don grew up and built a castle as his village home. He needed this structure for his family to stay in and survive winters etc., and keep his library, studio and sample storage. He used his knowledge to sell Intellectual property, to make a living and support the castle.
He is also very loving and fearless, and gave his time to help the community. He was elected a Commissioner for the local school Council
And Denise saved pennies using her intellect and was like her mother, a fighter and fearless. I believe Denise and Don, will soon be seen together again before their precious lives are taken from us. It wiser to Believe in wisdom, rather than nothing. Anything, it seems... works in a relationship, which easily dissolves.
This is not a fairy tale Story. And even more true, if believing works compared to nothing else then, not believing is abusive. This mathematical logical thinking.
People do learn to fit-in normally, or adapt abnormally, with a shield or an act of some kind.
The indigenous Indian tribes it seems, had more need to kill to survive. And they needed their men more. So they used their women to fight.
Christmas 2013. Will become, another occasion to repair old bitter thinking, and begin to Justly Love, each other as we are.
March 14, 2010
Most every one, in this very old picture, had yet to have publically confessed their sins. None have confessed recently it seems, cause if they had I would have heard from them. I forgave them years ago. Tristan did contact me; God Bless him. Something quickly interfered. I think Steven knows how to label so-called mental disorders, but not how to treat them. And he is a psychiatrist! Psychopath is another label. They need to confess their sins to Christ, and not a Buddhist Monk. I just simply love them all.
Look at "Sam" the puppy I bought especially for Michael. He, most of all had the highest score for social intelligence. He has moral reasoning problems today. Steven scores the highest on SAT testing. His empathy and compassion are missing however.
Denise, my lover, had the most difficult job of all. Giving up her most important self, to be a perfect Mother and Wife for the next few years. It is the most difficult role to play successfully, for all women. Imagine giving up a life of an attractive sexy unmarried woman to be a perfect married one. Each one of them here in this picture is a genius in their own special way. You can't see me "Dad" I'm simply getting their attention for a moment and asking them to reveal their facial expressions and then press the flash button to capture these splendid family moments. That flash moment reveals the particles only. The rest of their love is Dark Matter.
Married Men had best learn quickly what the magic of the Dark Matter of Love is. That takes enormous self awareness and compassion for every single member of his family, including our loveable dogs. Loving dogs just give back what they get from the family members.
I am a tough old man; but I shed a bucket of tears on my way to help them when they are hurting. I'm like a fearless fireman and get the job done and hold them tight with loving hands and eyes and soft words. The ones most easily hurt, are those women who must return to their old selves when the children are gone. Steven always got me to Taxi Him by saying "Dad I'm hurting, please come and get me." He lied a little.
I adored Denise, my sweetheart in both her roles and still do in the new one she playing in now. I know and believe she has given her very best. Another identity within her, I really cannot trust.
I would much prefer to leave out my "rebukes" to my children and ignore the "identity disorder." To do so would keep them from getting into Heaven, it seems. I just can't do that. I will pay the price of suffering, and leave the "shame" where it belongs. This is my Christmas message - I Love You and I Cry out for your moral help. I have nothing to deny or apologize for. I have heard no accusations at all. Francyne, said I was in denial ?! If there are, bring them into the open for all to see. I'll be 81, next April and I hope the 95 of Nelson Mandela and/or the 140 of Job is not foreseen for me.
( Don - 2008 )
With Kathy and Jack. Retired Farmers Happy for the afternoon Sad and alone in the evening 2012
When I did meet the Saull Family; a family that my Dad came from, and I never knew existed, this presented some distress to the family of Denise and Don Wesley. It would have enhanced both families and made them more loving. My boys and my brother Vincent Saull's son refused to meet each other. Denise, was very well accepted and admired. Vincent, loved Denise. Vincent was a Professor, at McGill University; Geo-Physics, and new little more. This became a bigger challenge for me to manage. It took more time and energy from me. Vincent, my new brother was in great need of me. He died two years later. Denise seemed to feel I was giving up my family to join the Saull family. I feared the pull of the other family... but was determined never to give up the family I was father of; and certainly not Denise. Don Wesley December 6, 2013.
This drama, has filled in
lessons for me, I hadn't completely learned. I suppose the real knowledge to
be learned here, is "you don't pass until you get it; 100 percent right.
Far too many of us graduate with less and think we can succeed. If we are
to be professional students, then buckle up and get down to serious learning
This particular video is about 'affection-interaction' among family
members. Particle Physics, talks about finding particles that are
missing. The missing mystery-particles are called Dark
Matter. At 80, I think a lot about love
and its absence. Unknown! We don't fly without becoming a licensed
pilot. Why shouldn't we be surprised, when love fails to fly in family
living. I abandoned the psychology of Freud and focused on the Behavioural Sciences and God.
I have started writing The Love Story of Denise and Don 1962 - 20?? It has taken me a life time, to understand what happens to women who have adapted to living; when abused as a child. They create different personalities to dis-associate themselves from the many realities of what hurt them. It is one complex hell for the husband and dozens of hells for the wife. Both are very sensitive people. They are soul-mates, who love each other. Love is a State of awareness, compassion and kindness for each other. Separation is a State of Torture and endless aloneness. Help them! Don't let the family Courts mess with them. email@example.com
" My first son Christopher John Wesley, [this marriage was
annulled] told me his mother would lock him in a closet when her man-friend came
into my home. I was 22 and married the women because she said she was
pregnant." Don Wesley November 30, 2013
The following is your comment old pal Roth - "They got rid of you on Ted and now you are a pain in the ass on Facebook" I reply to you.... The more you express yourself, the more of your butt you do reveal. [Not a pretty sight] As the old saying goes "take your nose out of the picture." You... posted a demeaning Comment about me... "We'll you had your chance to educate your young children and you blew it"  These, your comments are lies and demeaning. My life story is out in the open for all to see. I also created the blog for your Ginsberg Dublin Bar. I did this as an extension to my own Blog - Innjustice. It was my gift to you. My time, my blog and my intellectual know-how. All you do create, is "Hi and then Goodbye and hope you enjoy the article I sent you." I would call this "pretending to be an academic." And you are a high-school drop out. You dropped out in the first few months.  The next lie you have just expressed here on Facebook, is that I got kicked out Ted. I refused to stop talking about God on Ted; and they did warn me I could lose my right to start conversations. I chose, to keep the idea of moral thinking alive. I accepted their right to "ban me." Not to point out immoral behavior [Evil Behaviour] is to 'choose' being a perpetrator of crimes being committed. Just to see polite Christians avoiding to discuss immoral behaviour is also a crime. Just because a baby is present, doesn't excuse their immoral behaviour. They, Ted, also banned Rupert Sheldrake, the Scientist; and their readership dropped so low, they decided to take summer holiday. And Christ was killed. And John Wesley, was rejected by the established churches of his time. His Churches are alive and well today.
I suggest to you old friend... you have a problem understanding the meaning of morality; read, From a Ted Conversation by, Colin Erskine, Winnipeg, Mb Canada.
Ignore this message at your peril.
I was active at TED, then and my thumbs ups earnings were accelerating. This was contrary to those who control Ted, who seem to want-all-to-think 'technology' based upon science is more good for us than stories about immoral behavior. read on...
"We use the term "morality" so liberally across different conversations. Usually metaphorically without getting specific. It bothers me to no end when excellent speakers use the term "morality" loosely as if it necessarily implies specific behaviors like "sharing = moral" and "murder = immoral." To me, morality always seems best defined as sound reasoning and conclusion forming. Of course, as opposed to unsound reasoning. It seems really clear that morality represents only that basic intention in any living creature to do something right as opposed to doing it erroneously. That is, it seems morality comes down to the intent of doing what seems to make the most sense to the best of the abilities of the individual or group of individuals. As a simple anecdotal example, consider indulging a vice and stealing a purse from a store and then getting caught. While it may have seemed like a rational thing to do under the circumstances of expecting to get away with it, upon getting caught it would become apparent that the decision was not well calculated and certainly most harmful to the one person you were intending to take care of most, yourself. Your failure to achieve your own aim of self-enhancement is what dictates your actions as immoral, even from your own perspective. Of course, there are a number of vices one might indulge that have negative consequences not only for the self but perhaps for society at large. Any action a ruler might take which brings about the unrest and revolt of her people, would be highly suspicious as being immoral since a ruler's decisions ought to be made to enhance their rule rather than degrade it. Moral actions in all cases, seem to be those which the individual (and perhaps other individuals) can observe as clearly having the intended effect both in foresight as well as in hindsight. All other actions seem to neatly fit the description of immoral."
My Eviction, happened on July 31, 2009 and the Family Court processing seemed to end on June 9, 2013. I'm still homeless and in my Base Camp Rooming House, eating crackers and cheese. Service Canada is investigating; 'Anew' the identity problem, and I'll be 81 in 2014... 50 years since the day I married Denise Prevost and she became Mrs. Denise Wesley. The only "one" Marriage Contract we agreed to, before that marriage day on April 11, 1964, required one afternoon before a Judge to dissolve. ...
What happened to all the documents during those 4 years. [I kept copies of everything]
Something funny is going on here. One dead fish has two sides to study; symmetrical sides. Evil is not a little virus but one half of a living being.
"Evil belongs entirely to the symmetry and dynamic of human life---and is indispensable to it." Lance Morrow - An investigation (Copyright 2003.) firstname.lastname@example.org
Rupert Sheldrake at EU 2013—"Science Set Free"
Published on Jan 22, 2013
“Many scientists like to think that science
already understands the ways of the natural world. The fundamental questions are
answered, leaving only the details to be filled in. The impressive achievements
of science seemed to support this confident attitude.
But recent research has revealed unexpected
problems at the heart of physics, cosmology, biology, medicine and
psychology. Dr. Sheldrake is a biologist and author of more than 80
scientific papers and 10 books, including Science Set Free (September
I awakened [pleasantly - non PTSD] during the night and had two, very
clear ideas appear; about those two groups of people who are opposed to, my
world views. When I say opposed, that can also mean, my enemies.
I have two enemies that obstruct my ways [or fail to help me].
The Christian “Head Bashers” and the “Women's movement, who hate
My only passionate work today, is to convey the truth about
Corruption in our Court systems and the Unconscionable Judgements, that flow
[An Aside] Jaris-low-sky told me, that I was, my own worst
enemy; at the very same time he was fraudulently conveying, $28,000.00  of
my commission, from my “Diefenbunker lighting project” to himself. He, thought I
would fall for his distraction. That sum, is about Ten Million today.
Old Buddy, It seems strange that you believe in Robert Payne’s
and your own marriage to Maureen, in a Christian Church; and at the same time
say I’m wrong to believe in the idea of God and Christ's lessons
The common “label” for people who talk this way Is
“Hypocrites” isn’t this right. You say I use labels!
The “Women's movement” believes in Relationship's and not
marriage, and claim they have a better ethical system. It is happening in
Quebec! Take down the “Cross” they scream.
The three following links, I had watched during the day, may
have led me to my very pleasant awakenings
Old Buddy, I know you are not a Hypocrite, whatsoever. And,
I do believe that you do understand what you do see. I have suggested, that
“Snowden” himself explained he saw more, and was driven to tell the citizens of
the USA the truth. His simple and “Just” action makes him a hero. What do you
Whistleblower, Edward Snowden - And Senior, Elder, Don Wesley - Compare these two different vessels and How they think alike at the same time. See Don and his Dad in a 1934 picture, down below
What I hoped you would see, [a few days ago; because I
sincerely asked you to], was the following - “this one interview” where Edward
Snowden, reveals how he thinks, and the Principles of Moral Logic that guide
him. I don’t want to discuss at the moment, anything more than this comparison,
about my demeanour and seriousness and Edward Snowden’s demeanor and
seriousness. This is how I'm framing this story right now. We can go further into another frame, if you wish
to, sometime later.
His demeanour and seriousness, is much how mine has
been, since I met you, at 10 years of age. You were 11. We are now 80 and 81.
Even in High School, my demeanour was the same; serious and kind.
It is the demeanour, that my wife and children saw, and the
demeanour I displayed last night at Alexandria Masonic Lodge, to 10 very serious
My message - "There is Corruption in the Court Systems and it is hurting too many good men" resulting in"Man-made suffering" It needs our urgent attention. I was demanding their attention and apologised. I didn’t soften
my words however, which had to be heard by them. Their attention was held and the message delivered.
Like other good men, what I explain, to everyone, and always have, is from the
depths of my heart, and what I truly see, and they can't even know exists; until revealed by someone, at opportune moment. I never
use un-healthy anger. I'm just very happy to have them listen. It is not because I’m smarter, but
just because my mind is obsessively pulling me in; to see what my imagination
reveals. This mind, not in the Brain, is also the collective mind; as Carl Jung researched year ago.
[An aside] Obsessive thinking is a gift from our Creator, it seems. My Son, Steven revealed this to me when he was 13. The lady shrink we visited, said "you need obsessive thinking to learn. Steven is now a Psychiatrist.
"Each of us sees only part of what is possible" and what needs to be done and we can't wait for someone's approval to respond. So, as good individual men, we are obliged to hear messages and cry's for help. Together we hear the whole message [in parts] from each other. Then as Craftsmen and Engineers using the Social Sciences as well, we get what is important and urgent, done.
What moves most men more, is the Propaganda created and
published by the richer people, who control everything. Only they have the power to approve. The collective "We." This is the Bovine Matter they grind out, daily and we pay for.
It is the individual men (The holy "I's") who get together for the job defined, as needed. (Putting out a fire for example)
Some mistakenly say, that I am a controlling Narcissist.
Some have tested me, and find that no narcissist is present in me.
I thank you Buddy. Don
The following is a young man, is an image of [likeness]to me; like when I was in the Signal Corps. 1952. -
“whistleblower Edward Snowden: 'I don't want to live in a