Thursday, June 30

The Future is Rushing In

The Future is Rushing In

Don with His wife's Parents

The Future is Coming 
Published on Jun 29, 2016
Technology has changed almost every aspect of the way humans live, and it's not about to stop. From virtual reality at home to the on-demand economy to artificial intelligence, the forces behind technological change are only accelerating. That's according to Kevin Kelly, author of "The Inevitable: Understanding the 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future."

The co-founder of Wired magazine joins The Agenda to lay out a road map for the future.

A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms ~ Attacks Her Husband.

(The Victim ~ Lyndon Fawcett)

 A TRUE Story by Don Wesley

My 2 Sons

My Denise - BPD

Me - Another Older Victim; helping Lyndon Fawcett

A Female with Borderline Disorder Symptoms. 
Attacks Her Husband.

The Husband was attacked by his wife.

April 11, 2016. Past midnight   By Don Wesley

1)  While He was sleeping, she cut herself and then called the police  911, to say he cut her.

2)  This happened In Ottawa. April 10, 2016.

I met Him in Winchester Tim Hortons, just about Midnight. We  were strangers.

4) He had paid $90.00 for a Taxi to drive him to Hortons.

5) He was waiting for his Aunt Maria to pick him up.

6) He appeared very anxious waiting for his aunt.

7)  I  felt his unease, and asked why he was so anxious. His reply was part of the sentences above.

8)  Given my experience and empathy I suggested and he accepted my experienced help.  He expressed his appreciation several times. He seemed compassionate.

9)  He is 40 with 3 children and his wife according to him has a very serious drinking problem.

10)  I drove him to his aunt at 12413 Barkley Road, Williamsburg.

11) His wife,  by calling the police resulted that He was charged by the Ottawa Police

12)  He was taken to the Ottawa City Police Station, where a Detective had a Conversation with Him and then asked Questions. He denied that, He even touched his wife.
He was sleeping before she arrived

13) The husband has objective evidence , that she drinks and is very argumentative.

14) He has pictures of Her bite marks on His leg and ankle.

15) He has evidence over 8 years of being together.
3 children , the oldest is 11.

16)  His wife brought the children to her mother and returned to tell her husband to leave.

17) He, having no place go except to is aunts home. A $90.00 Taxi drive to Winchester.

18) He says he was fed up with her arguments and admittedly feeling annoyed. Always self controlled annoyance

19) My conclusion, based upon serious study since 2000, is that His wife was abused as a child [Trauma] and has all the symptoms of Borderline Disorder - with the usual  


20)  Their children are also at risk with his wife; she could kill them or injure them in some less permanent way

21) These injured women, have an impulse control problem.

22) They are very dangerous, many studies reveal this true.

23) Many more studies, can reveal that Husbands are seeing injustice hit them; financially, morally and psychologically.

24) These psychic injuries are being seen by Family Doctors as PTSD. This is a long term injury caused by someone other than the victim.  It makes the victim too anxious.

-See ....


26)   The police charge itself,
is one more traumatic attack !
Why are police attacking Him instead of defending Him?

27)  He works in the Construction Industry when the weather permits.
28)  His wife was arguing with His co-worker this April 10, same evening. The argument seemed too serious.

29)  He asked His co-worker to leave; so he did.

30)  This all fits those Who have been abused as a children.
This is the Borderline Disorder set of symptoms.  

30) They were all drinking.

Here are some lessons about
BPD and Impulse Control.

The Men Going Their Own Way - MGTOW - Nikola Tesla

Published on Dec 12, 2013

Nikola Tesla invented the modern electrical system and the radio and remote control. But he was also a MGTOW and never married.
He didn't want to be with women that were behaving like men. And so he stayed single his entire life, living in a state of intellectually induced asexuality.

Since 2008 - MGTOW - When my wife left me - I was 77.

“To remain Soul-mates, requires touching and hugging each other all day long and every day”

“Soul-mates, requires touching
and hugging each other all day long and every day”

Denise Wesley

Don Wesley

History adds more evidence of the Criminal Mind to our Attention

What Crime ?   What Borderlines Do?
2005 -11-11.

Now the evidence of Crime

Where did 'Denise Prevost' get the money in 2005.
I found this document this morning in my old files.

This following Letter From Denise Wesley to
Don Her Husband; is 30% truth and 70% un-truths.

People who are Rational are more Trustworthy; but never completely:

If they are conscious of Soul they are even more Trustworthy.
My wife was wise for herself and frequently loss awareness of Soul and I never knew where she was.

Living with Person like this is Hell: I was always thinking Is she alive or Dead. Finally I'd get a call and her first words were; It's me!
A Family is a small Community who must be aware of its Soul.
If not life becomes Hellish.

The Family members begin to Hate each other.
This I learned from difficult experience: Torture injured my Mind and Soul.
My whole life was devoted to building day by day, an Integrated Family.
Some evil spirit bombed us hundreds of miles apart.
The good news is, I'm still alive to reveal how God works. 83 years old.
In the letter below she said she planned her escape from me.
The new evidence shows that in 2005 she bought a piece of property with money she found in my virtual pocket: $90,000.00.
2005 was 3 years before she left me! On December 24, 2008
When the Divorce was issued, it said we lived together until 2013?
Denise had me evicted in 2009.
Not one Police Force would bring my case to the Criminal Court and live in Canada - A nation that still is blind to Torture.
What would you do?

To remain Soul-mates, requires touching and hugging each other all day long and every day.

President Obama Addresses Canadian Parliament 6/29/16 FULL SPEECH

Published on Jun 29, 2016
President Obama addressed the Canadian parliament on June 29 2016. On a self-described "rant" about populism, but without mentioning Donald Trump by name, President Obama today submitted that the presumptive GOP presidential nominee’s rhetoric is not populism, but actually "nativism or xenophobia." “They don’t suddenly become a populist because they say something controversial in order to win votes," the president said, taking a moment of liberty at the North American Leaders’ Summit in Ottawa, Canada, after several questions at a news conference explored Trump’s campaign rhetoric. "That’s not the measure of populism. That’s nativism. Or xenophobia or worse. Or it’s just cynicism."

"I would just advise everybody to be careful about suddenly attributing to whoever pops up at a time of economic anxiety the label that they’re populist,” the president implored at the National Gallery of Canada. “Where have they been? Have they been on the front lines working on behalf of working people?”
Obama said people like Sen. Bernie Sanders, who has campaigned for social opportunity, “deserve the title,” while someone who has never shown the same regard for workers, social issues and making sure poor kids have a shot at life does not meet the standard.
"Let’s just be clear that somebody who labels ‘us versus them’ or engages in rhetoric about how we're going to look after ourselves and take it to the other guy; that's not the definition of populism. Sorry,” Obama deadpanned.
The president then jokingly apologized for his "rant."
"This is one of the prerogatives of when you're at the end of your term,” he said. “You go on these occasional rants."

Wednesday, June 29

Narcissism is an Extreme form of Self-love

Today I'm 83 years old and technology is no big amazing know how.

We still know nothing about who God is: The simple transistor was a little start, and up into a smaller space craft than earth is.

We have learned how amazing the earth is: but nothing about man-made injuries.

The 'self-esteem equation' was created by a Harvard psychologist years ago.

I try to keep my self esteem high, by taking care of everyone. Once in while you may find a project where you can make a whole organization better for all the stake holders. Projects, in need to know, find it difficult to find guys like me/us. I used to study all the time to be aware of the best knowledge available to be such a good project leader.
I studied Business law, Principles of Personnel Management, and the base knowledge of all Engineering which really is Math and Physics.
Later in life I studies Psychology. Organizational Development was a gift from God. See my IBM story in this blog collection.

At the beginning of my life my Dad told me about Jesus.
In High School, I studied the One Story of Job and the Play Hamlet.

I was always curious about crime: then I met and married a Narcissist.
This name is now used by Medical Psychoanalysts.

We brought one into our family ...... Doctor Lundell.
I and my sons went to him for about 10 years and he died.

Before he died he said... "Denise will kill you"

We needed Jesus and not just a kind and caring Doctor, who made his living until he passed on.

I needed all I studied to make many organizations enjoy the benefits of technical know-how:
the power I had to pass on technical know-how was my belief in God.


Narcissism finds its roots in Greek mythology. Narcissus was a man who fell in love with his own image when it was reflected in a pool of water. In today's terms, narcissism means to derive gratification from vanity or egotistical admiration of one's own attributes. It is seen as a form of self-defeating pride.
This is not a viewpoint that Teal agrees with. Teal explains that the most
important thing when it comes to understanding narcissism is to separate self-love from selfishness. Most people think that narcissism is an extreme form of self-love. It is not. In fact, narcissism has nothing to do with self-love. It has to do with someone who perceives an extreme lack of self-sustaining resources, like love. Compassion is necessary when interacting with narcissists. Narcissists hold some of the most painful beliefs and therefore live some of the most painful lives you can find on this earth. People often think narcissists have a high level of self-esteem. They do not. In fact, their life is a perpetual search for self worth and self-view gratification because they are very insecure.
In this episode of Ask Teal, Teal explains narcissism in depth. She then explains how a narcissist can find healing and what to do if you have attracted a narcissist into your life.



Saturday, June 25

Discover God, discover health

Published on Nov 17, 2014

Stormy Falso, CSB, discusses how a better understanding of God leads to healing.

This video is one of five talks given as part of a lecture series on, “Spiritual Solutions for Lasting Health,” sponsored by First Church of Christ, Scientist, Pasco, Washington, on October 11, 2014.

Friday, June 24


When Tribes Go To War

Your words may predict your future mental health

Published on Jun 16, 2016

Can the way you speak and write today predict your future mental state, even the onset of psychosis?

In this fascinating talk, neuroscientist Mariano Sigman reflects on ancient Greece and the origins of introspection to investigate how our words hint at our inner lives and details a word-mapping algorithm that could predict the development of schizophrenia.

"We may be seeing in the future a
very different form of mental health," Sigman says, "based on objective, quantitative and automated analysis of the words we write, of the words we say."

ADHD Child vs. Non-ADHD Child Interview

One of them has ADHD.

Published on Oct 14, 2015

Two children were interviewed and asked the same questions. Both children are six years old, in the first grade, and have the same family structure, but their answers are very different. The reason? One of them has ADHD.


Published on Feb 10, 2016

On a summer’s night, there’s nothing more magic than watching the soft glow of fireflies switching on and off. Few other life forms on land can light up the night, but in the dark depths of the oceans, it’s a different story: nearly 90% of all species shine from within: Creatures of Light.
Whether it’s to scare off predators, fish
for prey, or lure a mate, the language of light is everywhere in the ocean depths, and scientists are finally starting to decode it.

NOVA and National Geographic take a dazzling dive to this hidden undersea world where most creatures flash, sparkle,
shimmer, or simply glow. Join deep sea scientists who investigate these stunning displays and discover surprising ways to harness nature’s light—from tracking cancer cells to detecting pollution,
lighting up cities, and even illuminating the inner workings of our brains.

The Gathering House and Pastor Tim

June 24, 2016

Pictures for The Gathering House.

Don Wesley 1933

Tim in Color

Tim in Grey Colors

Wednesday, June 22

Canada - First farmers - Ancient evidence found in the Red River

Published on Jun 22, 2016
Jill Macyshon reports on evidence hidden for centuries in a Manitoba river bank that's rewriting the history of First Nations in the west.

Sister Rosetta Tharpe is mind-blowingly great!

A world wide Community Brother; brought her to my attention this morning.

He is ....

Charlie Hall

Published on Jul 22, 2013

If you like Gospel, Blues, Soul Rock & Roll or any other form of classic American music, you have got to watch this. A huge influence on many who came after her, yet largely forgotten, Sister Rosetta Tharpe is mind-blowingly great!

The Story Of Sister Rosetta Tharpe

The Story Of Sister Rosetta Tharpe

Charlie Hall

Published on Jul 22, 2013

If you like Gospel, Blues, Soul Rock & Roll or any other form of classic American music, you have got to watch this. A huge influence on many who came after her, yet largely forgotten, Sister Rosetta Tharpe is mind-blowingly great!

Meditate, Reason, Live and Be Moral.

'Don' Wesley

Meditate, Reason, Live and Be Moral.
Repeat this Process several times every 24 Hours.

All Processes Build new Ideas and Material Things. 

If you can't solve your problem(s) get help from your Community of Brothers and Sisters: You are never Alone when living using this Mental Process.  Fear is just a problem to Solve.

The Holy Spirit is now much easier to access.
There many more communities to Live with: Online! 

Tuesday, June 21

Double Double

Every night I have a
"Double Double"

And see the Moon Light.

Published on Jun 13, 2016

From humble beginnings in Hamilton to a multibillion dollar enterprise, Tim Hortons is more than a lucrative coffee chain; it's a part of Canadian consciousness and identity.

Douglas Hunter chronicles the company's journey bit by bit in his book "Double Double: How Tim Hortons Became a Canadian Way of Life, One Cup at a Time" and he joins The Agenda to discuss the brand and its signature brew.

Monday, June 20

A Letter I wrote back in 2010 ~ It is a lesson valuable now in 2016.

A Letter I wrote back in 2010 ~ It is a lesson valuable now in 2016.
I felt like Little King David fighting the Giant

Dr.  JaiDev, was a senior in the Sikh Temple in Ottawa; which I was partly living in.He found and needed me to help him.
Then, I needed Him.

18/03/2010 4:16 PM

TO:  JaiDev

FROM:  Don


Thank you for the attached document 'Becoming Present.'


I am very experienced in staying in the present; I have been in the present since I was a child. However the dynamic processes unfolding, like court processes, are  a fight, and one needs to constantly take measurements of the three elements of the power balance in order to make adjustments during the fight for survival.

These times in action; are very difficult and at times one does bleed. In that regard I need help and a warrior’s shelter. I am facing several fronts simultaneously and where I get the energy is being in the light of the universe.

I am not in exclusive control of when and I where I sleep next, nor in control of how my access to cash flows is to be inventoried. It is a very complex situation for me given that I am facing overwhelming adversaries who have extraordinary powers' in comparison to mine.


Your input to this reality which unfolds before me; [unfolding changes] almost as fast as the winds change: I welcome.

I need someone in my corner of the 'fighting platform.' I am in the present and need the stillness to intuit my way to a higher level.

I am not always smiling with awareness for the other beings in my presence. I would have liked to have learned more about your son Dev, while he sat with us at the meal he had prepared for us, but at the same time I needed to hear your feedback for My Dear Diary document.


As an example I think about a hockey player who is in the 'Zone of playing' who suddenly finds himself, facing an attacking bystander to the game; his behaviour towards this new attacker may momentarily be seen as irrational/inappropriate to an innocent bystander. The bystander may make ad homonym remarks which are of course remarks of the dark or ignorance.


I need you in my corner of the fighting platform ring.


Until soon with warm love

Don Wesley 1933