He said to me "divorce after 30-40 years of marriage is insanity".

Dear Diary

A song from the heart - Ne me quitte pas    
Jacques Brel-Ne me quitte pas (Eng. Subtitles)

On my travels today I met very remarkable individual; 
Jean-Marie is French Canadian and he showed me his intelligence in a splendid manner. He has the same wife and has raised many children and has seen the injustice of the courts as it has related to his sons. More to the point however is that he said “women have no heart, when it comes to hurting their own husbands.” He laughed when he said this, but quickly returned to say he was absolutely serious! We talked for over a hour about divorce. He said to me "divorce after 30-40 years of marriage is insanity".


I had no trouble agreeing with him; this has been my experience as well. We are both the same age.


Don [From The Silent Generation -  1930's]

 

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The increase in divorce rates [over-60s] has been described as 'a major social revolution'

"Britain is seeing a boom in silver-separations".


"They feel they have been left high and dry in circumstances they had never anticipated and are very unhappy. It is a real tragedy".

Pensioners are the only age group where the divorce rate is rising.
The increase in divorce rates among the over-60s has been described as "a major social revolution"
The latest figures, for 2009, reveal that more than 11,500 over-60s were granted a divorce – up 4 per cent in two years.
This contrasts with a fall in the divorce rate for all age groups of more than 11 per cent.
We are really witnessing a major social revolution, with older generations no longer behaving in the traditional manner.
They realise there is still time for new horizons and new perspectives. However, it can be very difficult for children to see their older parents splitting up and it is a worry when family units break up.
"I’ve had letters from older divorcees who were bewildered by what had suddenly happened and had experienced terrible loneliness' - Esther Rantzen"
TV presenter and journalist Esther Rantzen said she had been contacted by people who had divorced
late in life and suffered terrible loneliness.



But there are also cases when one partner desperately wanted to stay married end up unexpectedly on their own at a very vulnerable time in their lives.
"I’ve had letters from older divorcees who were bewildered by what had suddenly happened and had experienced terrible loneliness".







Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2063430/The-growth-silver-separations-Divorce-rate-60s-surges.html#ixzz1e7N1xXTP

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I hope this conversation will help humanity to come to the aid of victims of “man-made disasters.”

2 hours ago: Thank you Debra for your precious thoughts.





I have had enormous unstopped growth over the years and have used my empathy and energy to help others. My separation however was not a positive factor for my comfort level. I slept in my car in freezing weather for several months.




My financial plan and wealth was more than adequate to live out a very good life in my home together with my wife. Now my comfort level is really restrained and filled with continuing uncertainties in dealing with new flows of people around me.




However, the deceptions of my soul-mate was not something I had expected, but it was contemplated in our marriage contract. The Court System took me by surprise! This system allows and overlooks the unconscionable tactics of lawyers who succeeded in separating me from my source of wealth. A story comparable to the Book of Job!




Without wealth and cash for another lawyer, I was abused by the power of the Court Orders, not withstanding a Court Judgement which was issued to keep me in my home. I escaped the horror of Quebec and came to Ontario. One of my sons is a psychiatrist and I am well educated in matters of personal psychology; I feel no need for a counsellor.




We are forced by situations to live through them; alternatives are limited. Who knows what tomorrow will reveal; a mystery. I miss the comfort of a my soul-mate; the touch and empathy of closeness. I dread the loneliness of day and night and find myself withdrawing from the noise of people around me, “who don’t understand victims.”




I was drawn into this conversation by the vivid words of Cliff. I hope this conversation will help humanity to come to the aid of victims of “man-made disasters.” People think you get the justice you deserve in courts; not true. You get injustice and the price they charge is equal to your wealth.




Debra, I sense your hug and hope for the victims like me.



http://www.ted.com/conversations/7103/alone_and_lonely_fear_of_in.html?c=358300
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How Canadians have been betrayed by Canada's morally corrupt family court... systems

     http://vimeo.com/7489147    

"Prime Minister Stephen Harper claims to his fellow Canadians and to the rest of the world that Canada is a country that all Canadians are proud of. He claims that he has the "team" that is capable of protecting the income and opportunities of all Canadians.
This video starts with the testimony of a young mother who lost everything she ever worked for in Canada as a result of the family court system. . .
Before fleeing persecution in Canada, this mother wanted her testimony to be recorded to help in the struggle to end the injustices perpetrated against the Canadian people and to restore justice to the Canadian family court system.This young woman's uncle was a judge in a Toronto court and she was raised in the belief that justice existed in the Canadian family court system. Her dreams of having justice in Canada have been shattered and her relationship with her child destroyed by a child protection system gone not only BAD but MAD! Other testimony from other Canadians is added to this video as part of an ongoing project to provide testimony from a cross section of Canadians. "

Love and fraudulent women's shelter community groups - Links

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Love, Romantic Love and Deep Attachment
Helen Fisher tells us why we love + cheat

http://www.ted.com/talks/helen_fisher_tells_us_why_we_love_cheat.html

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Toronto criminal defence lawyer, Mr. Walter Fox speaks before Police Services on the topic of how government funded women shelter advocates have effectively bypassed the democratic process using inquests to make their own hidden agenda the law .

    http://vimeo.com/1889117     

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