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The INN of JUSTICE is a collection of personal reflections, essays, and conversations about life; which contributes to the knowledge of Good Families.
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We are all victims of Lies
I'm 83 and still a victim.
My Name is Don John Wesley
This picture was taken 10 years ago.
April 23, 2016
The super-rich seem to employ highly skilled liars.
They are so rich, so they can afford to investigate before they hire?
I will produce another Blog story of how often I been a victim.
Two recent suppliers of what I buy everyday: Food and Cell Phone service.
Third, I also spent yesterday with a small group of self-called Christians who believe that only Jesus is one with God. I know that God lives in us; in one of the two halves of our brain. We are connected by infinite electromagnetic waves to the whole universe. Not only Jesus has the exclusive privilege of talking intimately with God.
The Book of JOB in the Holy Bible revealed this to us all at least 2000 years ago.
One Food supplier charges me 14 dollars for 1+ Liter of Snack fluid.
While Auto gas sells for 90 cents a Liter .
This is a lesson we need take and pass the test
before we challenge another Liar.
Truth about Liars and Lies
The author of this lesson says......
No matter how painful the truth may be, it is always best to be open and honest up front.
The origin of a liar is evil. The goal of a liar is supposed self-protection. Although there are different kinds of pain, the intention of a liar is to cause or alleviate pain to the receiver of the lie.
People love to read and write about liars but do not enjoy direct contact with them.
Liars make good villains in a story but not lovers, relatives, friends or acquaintances.
In reality, good people try to avoid them like the plague.
There is no trust consequently any stability in a relationship with a liar. When identifying a liar, there is no distinction with age, sex, race and so on.
A liar is a liar, period. A victim of a liar is a separate story.
In my opinion, there are different types of liars. Although people can fall into more than one category, the divisions include:
1) The Blatant Liar,
2) The Back-stabbing Liar,
3) The White Liar,
4) The Poker-face Liar,
5) The Non-verbal Liar, and
6) The Blackguard.
A person who looks you in the eyes and speaks a lie without blinking an eye or conscience is the Blatant Liar. You obviously and automatically know this evil-
hearted person is lying because he/she chooses not to hide it in any way or form.
The back-stabbing liar is found most often in a business, especially corporate work environment. The success-climbers will resort to any means to reach the top and
usually back-stabbing is involved. The phrase 'watch your back' applies to this
arena.
Feel-good compliments or keeping the peace are the white liars. Usually the feel-good compliments are spoken by women and the keeping the peace comments come from men. Even though you may be fat and/or the color is wrong for you, a white liar will tell you that 'you look great!'
When a person masters the art of maintaining a blank look on his/her face, this is a poker-face liar. As when playing cards where the other players absolutely believe you have a good or a bad hand, in reality you have the opposite. An honest person never receives the expected from an un-expectant poker-face liar.
The most difficult lies to detect come from the non-verbal liar. First of all, the non-verbal liar firmly believes he/she is not lying because he/she did not SPEAK it aloud. This phrase applies to the liar's way of thinking, 'what she/he doesn't know, doesn't hurt her/him.' Because the victim of the liar eventually learns the truth from another source, the opposite is true and the victim is hurt deeply.
No matter how painful the truth may be, it is always best to be open and honest up front.
Compulsive lying or pathological lying is not in the DSM anymore (was in the DSM 3) and therefore cannot be diagnosed on it's own. Due to this change, there are many beliefs and arguments about compulsive lying, what it is, and how to treat it.
Here are some of the things I found: The person who struggles with compulsive lying tells lies that are just believable enough. They may be amazing stories or things they did that made them heroic, but you can't completely say for sure they are lying. It is also important to note that these lies are not due to a delusion. They know they are lying and upon confrontation they will admit that that they were lying. Also, their urge to lie doesn't come from any external force. They feel that they need to lie because their life isn't exciting enough. Lastly, all of the lies or stories they tell will place them in a favorable light.
As for treatment many argue that compulsive lying is part of other personality disorders and should be treated as such. The people who believe it should be it's own diagnosis; CBT or Behavioral Therapy tends to be best. This can help them recognize when the thoughts and urges to lie build up and how to stop them from acting out on that. I hope you found this helpful!
